If you went out with a guy you met online and he seemed ok, nothing great, but you wouldn't mind going out with him again. I would like to go out with him to a movie or dinner or something but all he suggests is going to his house and watching a movie together so we can snuggle. I really don't feel like snugglling with a guy I just met. I feel he is moving too fast and have avoided most date offers for this reason. I wish he would ask me out to a movie or to dinner instead of asking me if he can pick me up and take me to his town (about 40 miles away) to go to his house to watch tv. I watch too much tv and spend too much time at home. Is there anything wrong with wanting to go OUT somewhere instead of doing something that I can do at home? Keep in mind this isn't a guy that I am in love with or even know enough to just want to spend time with him. I'm just trying to get to know him
2006-07-14 12:37:56 · 8 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well yeah you definitely don't want to move too fast if you just met him. If all he wants to do is go to his house and "snuggle" then i wouldn't trust it. I would just tell him that i don't feel comfortable going to his house and he is moving to fast for a person that i just met.
2006-07-14 12:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by Question? I Got An Answer! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is moving too fast. Suggest that you go out with friends and all do something together-- like ice skating, ice cream, or some community event. I met my husband 6 years ago online, and we've been married the past three years. So meeting online can be really great. But friends can really be good at assessing potential boyfriends too. People can act differently via email/online than they really are in person.
2006-07-14 19:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by CW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok... hun, if you don't know him and esp. if you met him online you are more that right to not want to go to his house... and DON'T... Tell him if he is really hip on the snuggles there is no law againsty snuggling in public, like at a movie... good job of not giving into his bullshit thus far... and keep it public
2006-07-14 19:50:23 · answer #3 · answered by paL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nuthing wrong with wanting to go and noe him better. I would suggest maybe going like bowling or sum other activity so u 2 can still enjoy each others company and have fun!
2006-07-14 19:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by Peanuthead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like there's only one thing on his mind. Tell him that you just met him and that you don't feel comfortable with doing that. If he doesn't understand, too bad! Don't ever do something that you're not comfortable with, okay?
2006-07-14 19:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point in the game, he should be catering to your wants and needs. Sounds like he's just trying to get you in the sack. Don't be afraid to me in control of the situation. If he really wants to get to know you better, he should be open to what you want to do or not do.
2006-07-14 19:42:08 · answer #6 · answered by not needy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with wanting to go out someplace! since you don't know him very well it would probably be a good idea to be somewhere where there's lots of other people around, anyway.
2006-07-14 19:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by kittyluvr0223 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a sexual predators backround check, and if it works out and he is sexy enough for your taste, give him some!!!
2006-07-14 19:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by dirtee diamondz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋