my BF called me up last night and told me that he still wants to be wit me but he met this girl and they ALREADY KISSED! i almost dumped his *** but i really like he and he said that he aint gonna break up wit me YET! i donno what to do! HELP ME!
2006-07-14 12:16:55 · 23 answers · asked by Cay Cay! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him you'll go out with him only if he'll let you use a strapon on his butt
2006-07-14 12:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is your self-worth. He wants the best of both world.
Tell him you value yourself more than he values you. Cry for a week if you have to. But do not continue to allow someone to use you. you will experience more hurt if you allow the situation to continue. Love yourself and find something interesting and fulfilling to do. Girl there are many of those out in the world. Create your own happiness. Do not rely on others for your happiness.
2006-07-14 19:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by enigma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have told him to get lost when he told you he went out with another girl and kissed her. Sounds like your bf wants to have his cake and eat it too. Why would you want to wait around for him to dump you or feel like you have to compete with these other girls he's seeing? Get rid of his sorry butt and find a guy that is happy with you.
2006-07-14 19:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was just a kiss i mean come on but he did say he was not breaking up with you yet which means he is probably going to break up with you anyway at some point so just dump him and move on
2006-07-14 20:21:08 · answer #4 · answered by SANDY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Yet" means he's planning to break up with you down the line. Don't settle for being 2nd best. Dump him first and hit the ground running.
2006-07-14 19:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him - he's already cheated on you by kissing her and by telling you about it he's trying to alleviate any guilt he might feel or any shock/surprise/tears on your part when he dumps you for this chick in a week. Stay ahead of him.
2006-07-14 19:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by Jill S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babygurl you are stupid if u stay with this @$$hole! get out now while you can..a man only does what you let him do..you let him kiss that girl and you didnt do anything about it and you're still there so he thinks he can continue and you will still be there..break up with him RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!!! you're only hurting your self and digging a deeper grave for yourself to get hurt..if you want to be a doormat go ahead and continue it. open your EYES!!!! why do you want to be with someone who disrespects you!?? thats crazy! u deserve that..maybe you love him and reallly like him but its obvious thats not mutal. you are getting cheated! find someone that feels the same for you! its not worth it babygurl. he wants to be with you but he wants another girl? come on now! say thank you and good bye to his @$$ im serious..they already kissed and he told you that and you are still there like a dumb duck..you're crazy! hes not going to break up with you YET?! lol...im done with advice..
2006-07-14 19:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by Calendar_Model 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him see ya....... don't let the door hit you in the A** on the way out and don't come back. you don't want to be second. he don't have any feeling for you and he is just using you. check it once and check it twice. see ya.... dump his a**. you can find better that will respect you. good luck.
2006-07-14 19:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, tell him"Don't let the door hit you in the ***". Let him go & any others for that matter, because if they stray & go away they weren't worth the time to begin with.
Anoni.
2006-07-14 19:22:35 · answer #9 · answered by anoni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he told you so that you would break up with him..he's already got another woman and probably doing far more than kissing...can't you take a hint...
2006-07-14 19:21:37 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine25 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep going out with him and enjoy the ride...it ain't gonna last :)
2006-07-14 19:22:35 · answer #11 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋