How can i tell him goodbye?

Question

I just want t ofinally end things but whats a nice way of saying i love you but were not going to be together forever!?

Answer 1

Wow, tough one. The reason you're struggling is because there simply is not a nice way to say "I love you, but...."

However, not being honest with him will do neither of you any favors. Provided you feel safe, I suggest you open up and tell him exactly what's on your mind. Honesty may not always be what we want to hear but it's always the respectful and right thing. I would ask him to please understand how hard this is for you and that you care enough about him to be honest with him. I would tell him you respect him and feel he has the right to know your true feelings instead of you trying to be someone fake. And I would tell him none of us know what the future holds but at this point you do not feel like dating him anymore and felt he would want to know this.

Of course if he has feelings for you then it's going to hurt his feelings. Only a machine would not be bothered. However, no matter how sad or mad he may get, he has to respect you. Just as importantly, you will respect yourself for being honest and treating others the way you want to be treated. What's right is right and when it's all over you can be confident that you did what was right, not necessarily what was easiest. It will certainly be the proper way to end it.

Stay hopeful!

James

Answer 2

Hey the love we had is gone we can still be friends but it is best if we move on and start seeing other people

Answer 3

that works...or you can go at it hot and heavy, then get up and tell him this, "that better last you a lifetime, because thats all your getting from me!", that should do the trick also.