I really like this guy so much im finding it hard to concentrate. i once had a misunderstanding with him thay i tot he didnt like me. He still talks to me but doesnt call me like b4. I have made him known serveral times that i still like him but he doesnt reply my texts. He even said as a joke if i could become his mistress, i dint answer much b4 he changed the conversation to a previous question i asked him.
What else can i do? I dnt want to get disgrced pestering him too much but i do really love him. Dnt know if he does but i think he might be shy to admit or otherwise.
HELPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-14 11:42:04 · 11 answers · asked by Incredible! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on sis... he's playin ya..
2006-07-14 11:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by Nobigdeal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MIstress? Is he married? If so, he does not respect you therefore FORGET HIM. If he's single, he's obviously not serious about you, or else he would be chasing after you to get your attention. Doesn't sound right honey, it does sound like you are pestering him. Forget about him and look for someone who respects you for the wonderful person you are. He's wasting your time and laughing at you too.
2006-07-14 11:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by Princess Lueji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't love someone you don't know. you are infatuated and this is going to end in tears...yours. leave him alone and move on. if it was meant to be it would happen without all this heart rending and worry. he's not shy he's probably too embarrassed. you will get over him but in the meantime you must distract yourself..read a book, go the gym, anything to occupy your time until you feel better.
2006-07-14 11:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy who says you can be his mistress (even in jest) is either not interested, not serious, gay (see: not interested), a player, a user, or immature.
If he was interested in you, he'd jump at the chance to talk to you or text you. I'm sorry, but it seems to me that it's time to move on.
2006-07-14 11:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by Church Music Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes leading you on. He throwing the bait and you are jumping up like a dog biting it.
Have some dignity and self respect and leave him be.
You are the one looking like a fool chasing him.
2006-07-14 11:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not love him. You LUST him. He sounds a complete no brainer - not the answer you want thought the right answers answers never are. Take care and get some more self respect girl. x
2006-07-14 11:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by Paula 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really sure, if you have let him know that your interested and nothing came out of it and he does not reply to your texts is not a good sign , but you think he may be shy??? think how he reacts around other women, is he shy with them too or is he throwin himself on him, suss out his personality... or ask a friend to 'briefly' enquire without makin it obvious. if he's shy around everyone then he might not know how to react
2006-07-14 11:50:32 · answer #7 · answered by josephine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should tell him in person!!!! He might think ur just jokeing. But remember this, sometimes u don't have things because u don't go get/chase after them!!!
(in ur case ur true love)
2006-07-14 11:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him be... you are no longer a challenge to him. If he wanted to talk to you he would call. I am not being rude just honest. The more unavailable the more they will want you!
2006-07-14 11:46:03 · answer #9 · answered by despondent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get involved with someone Else's fella,
you deserve a man that wants you and only you and doesn't play stoopid mind games.
tell dat looser to feck off..
2006-07-14 11:53:11 · answer #10 · answered by bubblegumgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mistress? Is he not taken?
2006-07-14 11:47:03 · answer #11 · answered by Naadu64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋