2006-07-14 11:30:37 · 19 answers · asked by Ahmalya 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. Personality (after all, we'll be spending a lot of time together - if we get married, a lot of lot of time together). Personality means you need to be fun to be around, interested in the world around you, kind, must have sense of humor.
2. Looks (you may be the father of my children, after all). Looks doesn't mean Brad Pitt either - I find a wide range of men to be handsome - men with long and short hair, baby-faced, hairy chested, artsy-looking, race doesn't matter. But...you must have nice teeth - that's my only hard-and-fast requirement!
3. Financial status. All this really means to me is that you live within your means and are reasonably generous (occaisonal gifts and flowers, fun vacations, a piece of jewelry here and there). I did leave a wonderful man once because he couldn't keep a car and constantly had utilities turned off - I grew up poor and a lifestyle spent cutting it close all the time was my worst fear.
In my 20s, looks and personality might have been reversed (looks no. 1). But once I hit 30 and found my husband, I realize that when you're gonna be together for the long haul (I've been married almost 9 years now), you better like living with the person you're with a lot better than looking at them!
Good luck!
2006-07-14 11:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by Trinaunz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality, Looks, Financial Status!
2006-07-14 18:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by ~SaRaH~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Personality
2. Looks
3. Financial status
2006-07-14 18:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay 1-5, 5 being the highest.
1. A place to stay
2. A job/financially stable
3. Looks
4. Intelligence
5. Personality and must respect me
2006-07-14 18:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by Chelly Belly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. personality
2. Looks
3. I have never looked for financial status in a man! I like to support myself and have been the one who works while my husband stayed home before.
2006-07-14 18:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) personality
2)financial status
3) looks
when the looks and the financial status are no more..you need a great personality to see the humor in life.
2006-07-14 18:35:35 · answer #6 · answered by grannygoat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Personality is the the most important thing I look for
2. Financial status is the next.. I don't want to be with a Lazy bum that I have to support the rest of my life.
3. If his personality is awesome then that makes him handsome to me.
2006-07-14 18:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man w/ his own special personality, I dont care too much about looks 'cause in 60 yrs. it wont matter anyhow.....& I guess some financial support...not for me but it's nice to be able to afford a house outside there mother's:) NO boys who live w/there parents...
2006-07-14 18:50:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.looks (i dont really like being seen with someone ugly)
2.financial( i am not living in a shack for the rest of my life)
3.personality ( if the guy is stupidly funny and a total yung girl flirt he's gone!)
2006-07-14 18:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Personality - you can't change it, so you'd better like what you're stuck with
2) Looks - they fade over time so not as important
3) Financial status - I don't need a man to look after me, I can take care of myself so his money doesn't phase me in the slightest.
2006-07-14 18:32:55 · answer #10 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋