Is never giving up on a love a nicer way of saying "stalker", or are there respectful ways of going about it? There's this girl I love madly, but I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable by getting in her face.
2006-07-14 11:22:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When the time comes I know she's not interested, I'll give up. I love her, but I care about her too.
2006-07-14 11:25:36 · update #1
So many mean answers!
I love her dearly. I will set her free once I know for sure she will never love me the way I love her.
She is my friend, and I told her I love her, and it made her feel uncomfortable. Next time I talk to her I will explain what I meant by it. I don't want her to love me back if it will only bring her sadness.
2006-07-14 11:28:53 · update #2
Leave her alone stalker.
2006-07-14 11:23:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Stalker is never a good approach. The more madly in love you are with someone the more desperate you become. Ease off. If you meet her, introduce yourself. Say you have noticed her in the same neighborhood. Be relaxed, casual. If she acknowledges you, you have a point to start from. Little things help. Maybe you could offer to help her carry things from the store. Don't be overt. Let her warm up to you slowly. That you posed this question on the internet shows you have heart. Good Luck.
2006-07-14 18:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to love someone, and be in this dream fantasy world. As long as you don't persist on asking her what she did like every second, and calling every day, maybe once in a blue, check to see how she's doing, and maybe she'll find an interest in you, like "wow, hes such a good person calling me 2 see how i am, maybe i should give it a shot" always make urself feel as number 1, such as "she needs me, i dont need her" kind of tempo. So feel free to explore, and u'll come across many other girls worth loving =p
2006-07-14 18:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by MisSieS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you love her (only if you know her for a while) ... dont use such strong words like love/ forever/... cuz it seems too fake especially if you guys dont know each other...start of by being a friend... and if feelings do develop tell her you like her.... if she doesnt feel the same way its better to let go and remain friends..... show her that you care and be around when she needs someone.... sometimes when you are all up in her face, she'll dislike you even more.... give her, her own space so she can breath... and if she misses you when you're not around.. that means she values you
2006-07-14 18:28:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a guy feel that way about me once. On our first "date" (a lunch), he said he had feelings for me. It completely freaked me out. Why? Because he obviously didn't know me, so I knew his feelings were coming from a fantasy place. if you don't know this girl very well, you can be sure what you're feeling is a crush, not love. If you DO know her well, and she doesn't realize that you love her, you should probalby tell her. Either way it goes from there, it's up to her.
2006-07-14 18:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just respect her wishes and don't "get in her face". If you really love her, you wouldn't disregard her feelings and put her in a situation that makes her feel uncomfortable, otherwise you she might end up resentful and angry towards you. Remember you can't make anyone love you or return your love. It is possible to "love" her from a distance. Good luck.
2006-07-14 18:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by Trixi Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her space. if she dont wanna see u do NOT push it. Give her time if she loves you she will be back. it can take awhile. It also depends on the type of relationship you had.
1.Are u guys usually on and off?
2.Is this your first break up?
3. Have you actually talked to her?????
2006-07-14 18:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet your young. You need to let it go..Leave her alone.. You got many more girls ahead of you, and many more miles to go... You need to learn about heartbreak and go through it a few times.. It gets easier the older you get... Don't go near her or talk to her for a month. After a month if you still feel for her, mail her a nice card and ask her to call you. If she never calls its over. One more thing bro - SOME WOMAN LOVE BEING STALKED! They love the attention... Becareful!
2006-07-14 18:24:02 · answer #8 · answered by johncharlesrealty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stalker if you love somebody set them free,you have an obsession which is not love
2006-07-14 18:26:33 · answer #9 · answered by jezebel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with her, and if she resists you then it's not working from her end and you may want to look for someone else.
2006-07-14 18:24:45 · answer #10 · answered by Sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋