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Question

1st thing I am really really really sorry that this is really long,
but I really need to know what should I do and what is this? And why do I
feel this way? Its all in the bottom:

Hi, I am trying to get over this person and somehow I feel like I
shouldn’t, but I don’t know why is that, well anyways I was a bridesmaid and I had this weird but good feeling when I was there dancing with my usher, make the long story short lot of people were like giving me lot of hints that he is single and that he needs someone in his life, and there was this couple that was engaged together and the guy was the grooms brother well he is my ushers best friend, and he and her fiancé were always like u need a girlfriend, what are you waiting for and things like that, and then they always looked at me to see my reaction, and then he turned to me and said “see what I have to put up with” with a little smile and then turned to them and looked at then in a weird way.

Or like
whenever the bride and the groom had to cut the cake the groom told him
“don’t worry bro its only like 15 min then you’ll get Emily and then he
showed the dance floor with his eyes and gave him a blink.

He was dancing and laughing with me all of the time, and then when we
were both of us alone and we were sitting down he was like I got to go
smoke and I will be right back, I cant say it wasn’t awkward actually it
was really awkward when we were both sitting alone, I was not attracted
to him not even a bit but there was something about him that pulled me
to him.

I saw him again in June 1st, and when he saw me he didn’t actually
recognize me cuz I had curly hair and I was actually wearing a different
style of clothing and my make up was put differently , well then when he
saw me he gave me this little smile, and then he had to take a picture
cuz it was a graduation day at csun and I was the one who was gonna
take the pic, so I took it and right before I gave the camera back he got
his sun glasses and putted them on, then in couple of min they had to
go so he turned to me and didn’t even look in my eyes and said bye (he
didn’t had the glasses on for that moment)

Today has been just 5 straight months that the wedding passed away and
I’m going to see him again just next month from tomorrow, and I cant
wait till I go there I kind of want to make him jeolus and let him know
what he lost, because I know if we tried our relationship it was going
to work out, cuz im not the kind of girl that will just leave him for
any reason I take my relationships seriously and I wouldn’t do anything
to hurt him or even any other guy, well that is not the point the point
is that im going to go and have my fun and act like he isn’t even in my
life cuz he knows that I am interested I am positive of that,

I saw
the wedding video and it seemed like he was everywhere like when he was
dancing it seemed like he was not paying attention to me, there were
couple of times that he looked at me and I think he even took a video of
me dancing, im not sure but that’s how it seemed, but then again why do
I feel like there is still a chance for me and him, he is 22 and going
to turn 23 maybe soon I don’t know and im going to turn 16, there is
only 7 year of difference but for us its totally different it can be ok.

Can you please help me out and tell me what should I do, cuz he is
killing my life whenever I want to flirt I can but then when they try to
get close to me and start talking to me I start hating them and its like
im not suppose to do that, he is always pulling me back. I don’t know
what to do anymore but just to get him out of me. It is like his soul is
stuck with me and cant get out of me.

Thank You, soooo much

Answer 1

ok first he might be a little nervous to date you because of certain laws (but believe me it doesnt really even matter its just the thought of it) and because of your age not the age difference but your age and his at this point dont really mix... but honestly i didnt even have to read you r details to know wat was on your mind and for some reason i had the same feelings you have about you two b4 i even got to the part of you talking about it... i think you should wait awhile before you try and date him maybe he wants a little time... i believe he likes you too but with the part with him only looking at you a couple times is because some guys have wandering eyes not because they arent paying attention... but i dont know wat else you could do about this, srry.

Answer 2

OK, he's too old for you. You need to wait about 2 more years before trying to start a relationship with a man that old. Give it time and I'm sure you'll find someone your age that you will like better than him.

Answer 3

It sounds to me that maybe he did like you, but there is that age difference that is probley holding him back. Yes your 16 but your still a teen and he is over 21..an adult. That could mean jail time for him and thats probely whats going on. If your were atleast 18 you guys probley hit it off better. Good luck though.

Answer 4

Stop obsessing about this guy. Find someone else. Do NOT do anything just to make this guy jealous. It's negative energy, and it will give you nothing but grief. Forget this guy and find someone who likes you.

Answer 5

no need for more i can't finish it .too long