Is it the girls fault if she has sex with another girl's bf, if the boy came on to her and seduced her?

Answer 1

its both of yall fault..first of all you both should have more respect for yourselves..then to do that..if you was the female that had sex with the guy and you didnt know he had a girlfriend..then i guess that would be okay if you didnt know about it..but if you knew he had a girlfriend you BOTH are in the wrong! you BOTH did it! so how can it be you or him! yall both done somethin yall had no bussiness doing..and why would you want leftovers? you dont know what he was doing with her last night and now you messing with him thats discusting and then you wonder why you're going to the doctors to find out why you're itching..because you mess with other girls boyfriends. dont matter if he came at you or not..you should respected that he got a girlfriend..you BOTH are wrong! and i hope the girl finds herslef someone better.

Answer 2

No, you have a girlfriend! Get real, you have a girl! Break-up with that girl-then we will talk! Yes, it's your fault, I am sorry, but you should have say no-somewhere between Hi and hitting the sheets. You knew it was wrong or you wouldn't be asking the question. There is no way to make this ok. I don't care if he is the most handsome man in the world, you have to think..It is hard to when you are caught up in a moment of passion, but don't put yourself in that position to begin with. How would you feel if someone slept with your boyfriend? You would be upset right? I hope this girl wasn't a friend, because, you proably lost that friendship. Hope it was worth all the trouble that could hit the fan. You can tell I have been cheated on before, it's not fun, and I would hold him more to blame, but you aren't innocent either if you knew he was seeing someone. I hope everyone is not too terrible to you when they answer your questions, some of these people are not nice..Next tell don't put yourself in that kind of a position, or you could end up hurt.....God bless....be careful

Answer 3

it's both their faults at least that's what I think. if the girl knew the guy already had a girlfriend she should have known better than to get involved with the guy...and the guy that seduced her is a jerk for pulling that stunt anyways seeming he does have a girlfriend.

Answer 4

Absolutely. We aren't animals. We make choices. The girl AND the boy are responsible for making that choice. Shame on the girl who had sex with her friend's boyfriend. Shame on the boyfriend. The girl is better off without both of them!

Answer 5

It takes two to dance. having sex with someone rarely "just happens." It is a mutual agreement. Taking off ones clothes just doens't happen with out some desire being there in the first place.

Answer 6

It is both parties fault. If he was the BF of your girlfriend then you are way more wrong for betraying the trust of your friend.

Answer 7

They are equally to blame. She should have told him to back off and she should have had enough respect for the girl not to even entertain the idea of fooling around with her boyfriend.

He is scum and should be kicked to the curb by both women.

Answer 8

You know that there is no way around that. Yes she and he are responsible. If she doesn't have enough self control she deserves being blamed. Or maybe she just wants what her friend has -covets. And lets face it...men are dogs.

Answer 9

Yes it's her fault. Where'd her brain go? She can't say NO? If he tells her to jump off a bridge is he right about that too? Time to use your brain as it was intended.

Answer 10

accepting the act of making love or just plain screwing is a act that two people agree to, so if your involved, your at fault. especially if you knew he was with someone else.