what should i do???

Question

im 16 years old Im still a virgin and have really done alot of such when it come to guys, but i have a freind who is 14 and going to my high school next year is not a virgin has 2 boyfrinds one who is 20 and a sophmore in collage and another who is 21 has been to jail (for haveing sex with a minor) and has a child. She is sexually active with the 20 year old and she sneaks him in her house and her mother has noooo idea. I think she reuining her life and shes not even in high school yet. Since shes going to my school next year i all ready know what the boys are liek and pretty much all they want is sex.. Do u think im over reacting becasue im not like that, shouls i tell her mom casue i really dont want her to get pregent or worse get an STD. plez help me

Answer 1

I think someone should know. Talk to her first and let her know that she's ruining her life. If she doesn't want to listen to you talk to her mom in private and inform her of the situation and ask her to keep it from coming out that you told so that your friend doesn't turn on you and blame you.

Answer 2

my advice 2 u is 2 tell ur friends mom about her if she keeps this up she will ruin her life and get pregnant or worse she is way 2 young 2 be having sex!! why can't people just wait until marriage?? even though she may hate u after u tell her mom u need 2 remember that ur doing the right thing and u care about her future
and no u r not over reacting i respect that ur a virgin because personally i think sex can wait

Answer 3

Call the Cops and do it now. You are not over reacting. A 20 year old man should not be having sex with a 14 year old. That is sick and that girl needs some discipline.

Answer 4

I'm sure you don't want to loose her as a friend, but you want her to be safe at the same time, right?
So here's what I'd do, type (don't write it) an anonymous letter to her parents, tell them that you are a very concerned observer and give specific details so they won't think it's a hoax. Tell them what you know straight up.
Don't talk to your friend about it 'cause it seems pretty obvious that she's not going to stop, and she may stop being your friend or think you're a square (you are not, by the way).
Good luck doing whatever you choose to do!

Answer 5

you are right to be concerned. your friend will end up pregnant, or or worse. i think you should talk to your own mom, then together go talk to hers. parents are more likely to listen to another grown up.

several people also suggested contacting the police. your friend is a minor. in the eyes of the law, that is rape even if both parties do it willingly.

Answer 6

Don't tell her parents because then you will lose your influence with her,she won't trust you anymore.Your friend is going to be a victim in the end.You might try privately talking to a cop about the jailbird if you have his name,but keep it quiet about what you do.

Answer 7

I would sit her down than I would talk to her and let her know how it is in high school and really talk to her. let her know about how hurt and only she is and that you would always be there for her and that she don`t need boy to make are happy she only need her self and her mother and let her know that she know that it will kill her mother if she was to find out and than if she don`t listen than you go to your mother not her`s and let them handle it because you don`t want her to hate you.

Answer 8

sounds like a world of trouble and pains. just to lay down the basics:
sex was made only for marraig. nothing else, no ecceptions
if pple like that are in that trouble, that deep, most likly, its not worth knowing them. osrry, but it can only hurt you.
god helps. praying. church. friends, out of all of these, god is the best at helping.

Answer 9

u need to tell your parents and they will tell her parents, she may totally hate you for a while but when some time passes she will realize how lucky she was that you prevented her from getting into deeper trouble. If she doesn't realize this she is an idiot, but remember, it will take time.

Answer 10

Tell her mom. What those guys are doing is illegal. They're just abusing her because she's ignorant.