There's this girl I love, but I don't think she loves me back. Should I try to win her heart, or should I hope she finds a guy that loves her that she's attracted to? I couldn't love any girl as much as her, but if she isn't attracted to me I don't want her to feel like she has to be with me.
2006-07-14 11:02:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't make somebody love you, but you can make it more likely they'll return it.
2006-07-14 11:07:15 · update #1
I get what you're trying to say,but you should know you can't
make someone love you.
2006-07-14 11:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by anitababy.brainwash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should ever give up on love. What you should do is tell her how you feel if you think she could handle it. I guess I don't totally understand the situation-Are you two friends? Would you lose a good friendship? Or do you just know this person? And she doesn't know at all how you feel? If you two are good friends I would say to let her chose who she wants to be with but if you two aren't really friends I'd say that you should go for it. You will only love so many people in your lifetime and if you lose "the one" because you were too scared of getting your heart broken, you will think what if and regret it.
2006-07-14 11:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by prettyrican 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do the right thing. Love is a two way street. To make it work, you two have to in love with each other.
2006-07-14 11:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by Thor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she isn't attracted to you, my advice is to move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Easier said than done, I know, but it's the absolute truth.
2006-07-14 11:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋