OK if my boyfriend has not called me in a month what should i do?

Question

We have been dateing for 7 months and well the first 3 months were good but i moved so i dont know what i should do.

Answer 1

If you think you and him were in a "mature" (note: mature NOT Sexy one) If I were you I would at LEAST attempt to speak with him, find out what's happenening and what made him NOT to call you for a MONTH.
He should be able to at LEAST give you a reason, Otherwise he would so immature that you can just completely forget about him.
I wouldn't try to re-think all my friends (assume that I'm a girl, yes I'm a guy) because it's gonna make you Distrust all your friends. But do look for a friend who's reluctant to go out with you anymore or to talk about your 'ex-boyfriend'. Then you might want to investigate her.

Hope it helps.

Answer 2

Well, he's not your boyfriend any more if he hasn't called you in a month. Move on to someone new in your new town, and if he does end up calling you, well then, you can make him really jealous by telling him you have someone new who's really into you - or you can lie, and make up your hot new boyfriend. If he lives far away enough he'll never know, and besides, he's really going to regret never calling you.
Buuuuuut - on the flip side, he could get angry. He might say that if you wanted to keep up the relationship, then maybe you should have called him instead of waiting around, or say you're cheating. Take my advice if you want to, but whatever you do, try to keep in mind what his reaction will be to whatever action you choose to take.

Answer 3

If he hasn't called you in a month then talk to him. Most relationships that far apart don't last long. I can't say much b/c I'm 2 hrs. away from mine and we've been dating almost 2 yrs. If you can't trust him then move on. It will never work out.

Answer 4

Find another boyfriend. The fact that you moved cut him loose, he hasn't called because he's moved on. You need to do the same.

Answer 5

something is seriously wrong or he's moved on....a month is a long time for communications to stop completely...especially since we have cell phones, aim, email, etc....

if you really love him... call him and see what is going on and talk about the lack of communications between you....and if he's giving you some lame excuse ... say bye and move on...

Answer 6

You don't have a boyfriend, that's what that means. Don't be upset about it, and don't try calling him. Move on, there are millions of boys out there that will be willing to call you daily.

Answer 7

Hey,
if your "boyfriend" has not called in a week, then maybe he isn't worth being called "your boyfriend"...................when someone loves you- they don't go that long without a call or seeing you. You seem like a nice girl..............forget him and go out and find yourself someone who loves every moment of being with you and around you. Don't settle for less, lifes to short. take my advice, 7 months is nothing. You are not losing out on anything, most of us get 2% from a bank for this type of investment...............
later......................................peace

Answer 8

honey-
you gatta get over him fast he hasn't called in a month! are you crazy you really think he cares! no! guys are such jerks sometimes and your probably a wonderfu lgirl so just wait for the right guy ditch this dude and dont sit by the phone naymore waiting for him to call!

Answer 9

Sounds like hes not your boyfriend anymore. MOVE ON!

Answer 10

gee do you need a brick to hit you on the head or what he hasnt called in 1 month, move on with your life. he has..find someone worth of your love, have fun, life is too short to wait on any one.