My friend has a 3 year old and she is pregnant. Her man left her. Once she has her baby and is ready to start dating, does she have a chance? She wants to take things slow and doesnt want to confuse her children by having a new daddy around right quick, but she does want to date. Perhaps she can find someone and after a while be happy long term......if the situation is right could you do it?
2006-07-14 10:36:26 · 15 answers · asked by adrixia 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i seem to think if the guy cant like the girl for who she is and what she has like kids. the guy is not a man. it not her fault that the kid father left her. it happen to much on today time. guy to day just want one thing. but if she find that one man out there that love kid like i do and love her for her. she will be OK. god will get her in and out of bad time. but she should not just take the first gut that come along. she sound like a nice women and should have the best. well hope she have a healthy baby and fined that guy that love her and her kids. so i hope i have help you out and given you some what of the right answer. thank you and god bless
2006-07-14 10:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by Chris Bell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm getting divorced and have two small kids. The advice is the same. Take your time. Don't be in a rush to replace your ex or get your kids a new daddy. Sounds strange but the most important person to take care of is her. The kids will follow real close in priority. If you can't take care of yourself, you're useless to the kids. It's a long hard road. Believe me. I know it's hard but remember this mantra I've lived my life with: Anyone can be a father, but it takes a real man to be a daddy. Date when you are ready. A new daddy who will love you and your kids will come in due time.
2006-07-14 10:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Date, sure. Long term relationship, not out of the question. She should probably avoid having the guy and kids meet till about 2+ months into the relationship just in case.
2006-07-14 10:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by jim_clark 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationships should be puzzling to construct. bear in mind you're asking the guy to construct a simulatneous relationship with a minimum of three human beings. (4 or 5 if the daddy(s) are nevertheless keen about their youthful toddlers' lives.)it truly is a particularly tall order. apart from the sociological, and some ought to argue organic and organic, issue of raising yet another guy's offspring, there is the monetary issue. If the relationship progresses to marriage, the guy unexpectedly has a kin of four that he has to assist furnish for. also, what if he needs toddlers? He ought to concern that you received't pick anymore. a first date is somewhat early to ask those questions so he ought to easily take the secure way out. ultimately, (and that i do not pick to seem cruel) perchance your toddlers have a lot less to do with it than you imagine. A date, exceptionally a first date, is a time to only scope out the different celebration. no longer all first dates bring about relationships or maybe 2d dates. I imagine courting is not basic for a unmarried mom. attempt making the first date purely you and him. bear in mind, you're purely out for somewhat adult companionship. i'm no longer suggesting you lie about having youthful toddlers yet do no longer make it the significant topic of communique. talk about your self; talk about him. go away the toddlers out of it for the first date. there is a great number of time to discuss the toddlers later in case you and he click in any respect. the right guy is accessible yet he needs to fall in love with YOU first.
2016-12-06 11:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly. Women with children are more responsible and mature than those without. Single mothers dont hang out at the bar and hit on bad boys all the time. They make great partners.
2006-07-14 10:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When my husband and I got together my oldest daughter was 2 and my youngest 5 months. I had just divorced my ex and was by myself. Well, we just celebrated our 11th wedding anniversary so the answer is yes, some men will step up to the task.
2006-07-14 10:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by icddppl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, but not because I dont like kids. I just dont want an instant family. Besides, the kids father(s) would be an annoyance too me.
2006-07-14 10:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by jack f 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure there's someone out there for her, probably someone who has kids of their own and understands the constraints.
2006-07-14 10:39:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would
And did
Love those kids like my own
2006-07-14 11:14:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I would date her anyway then her being pregnant would not matter to me.
2006-07-14 11:36:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋