2006-07-14 10:27:44 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Dear Diana,
Life is not that easy, there is not always a yes or not, sometimes life leads us to a points where more than 2 choices are in front of us.
Hide or seek?
It would be great if we could all count on family members to support our choices, but not always that happens.
Living a hidden life is not good, but I believe that before you open up your relationship you should expose to your mom that you are gay.
Also, I believe, you should make sure that is the life you will live. You seems to be a teenager and during this age several changes occur, sometimes major ones, as the discover of sexuality impel us to relationship and experiences.
Take care.
2006-07-14 10:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by joseclaudio2001us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my close friends just came out this year. It took a lot of courage for him to even think about coming out to his parents and finally one day he just did it. He thought his parents weren't going to love him anymore and kick him out of the house but of course that didn't happen. His parents were more supportive than he ever thought... especially his dad.
The point is to tell your mom when you're ready. But, the sooner the better.
2006-07-14 10:34:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm confused, you have this listed under weddings! If you are of age, I would hope that you have an honest relationship with your mom. If your getting married the bigger question who are you getting married to, and if your getting married to her, than I'm sure she will figure that out, sooner or later. If your getting married to a man, than I think you should let that luckey bastard know first.
2006-07-14 10:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl dont stress out about it .well first of all how do you think your mom will react wen you tell her if shes those kinds of mom that you cant trust cause shell be telling everyone so she could embarrase you i think you should keep it to your self a little while longer. well take care and if you ever need a friend hey im here for you.
2006-07-14 10:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anna C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may already know you are gay. Have to tell her sometime. Are you under 18? Live on your own? If you are still at home it could be rough if she doesn't accept it but you need to be honest with her if she is a good listener.
2006-07-14 10:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by Butkusman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready to tell her? I feel the sooner she is aware of your lifestyle the sooner she will adapt. Granted it will be a little hard to chew for her at first but break it in easy. Good Luck
2006-07-14 10:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by ♠♣♥Rogue♣♥♠ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep! You should until she is dead and in the ground. Until then be a normal woman. Marry a man and have kids. Remember it is a sin to be gay. It is a gross and dirty lifestyle choice. God made you to be with a man not a woman!
2006-07-14 11:24:19 · answer #7 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never hide anything from your mom moms are the most important thing in the world
2006-07-14 10:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but you need to learn to use spell check. You need someone to support you, whether it be a boy or a girl because you're never going to get a decent job with your spelling skills.
2006-07-14 10:29:55 · answer #9 · answered by pamela_d_99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You should rarely if ever hide things. Life gets too complicated.
2006-07-14 10:29:56 · answer #10 · answered by jim_clark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋