what happens if your whole family wants to move should I say something and what should I say?

Answer 1

let them know how you feel. don't just keep it to yourself. be prepared to move with them though, just find out how to deal with it!

Answer 2

Let them know you want to have a serious discussion, and then sit down and talk to them about how YOU feel about it.

If you are uncomfortable or feel unsafe talking to your family, I would suggest calling a social worker, or policeman, or another trusted adult, and also let them know why you dont feel comfortable discussing things with your parents/ family.

If you feel you are in immediate danger, try running to the neighbors house and calling 911 for help.

If NOT, just use "I" statements. "I feel" "I wish" "I dont understand", but DONT use "you" statements, because they put a person on the defensive.. "You are" "You dont" "Why are you".
Maybe they will help you through this. Moving is never easy. I can understand your situation.

Good luck!

Answer 3

If there are a general agreement on the move, and you are alone in stay and stand there, perhaps you won't succeed. Try to accept the idea thinking it will be great to you.
New friends, new school, new challenges and so on...
Say, you agree and believe it will be great.

Answer 4

If you're old enough to live apart from your family, say "I think I'll stay here and get my own apartment". If you're not, say "okay, what can I do to help". It's probably no easier for them than it is for you, and your complaining about wanting to stay where you are is not going to make things any better.

If you are dependent on your parents for support, you have to abide by their decisions about things like where to live and what to eat. Sorry. That's one of the tradeoffs to being young enough not to have those kinds of responsibilities.

Answer 5

Tell them how you feel.