how to get my girl back?

Question

I was in luv with this girl who was studying with me 4 yrs back..I am a kind of person who doesn't speak much with girls, but i really loved this girl more than anything else in the world and things went on very well for one year..In that period of one year we both got engaged and she even smooched with me once after the engagement..Later on her parents came to know abt this affair and were against the whole thing..so it happened like she stopped speaking with me finally left without even saying bye to me..We both are from different cities, so it was really difficult for me to speak with her..she use to hang up on me whenever i call her..I tried my level best to speak with her and convince her..but nothing worked..she use to delete my mails without even reading it..the problem here..though its been 4 yrs i am not able to forget her..i have the same feeling even today like how it was 4yrs back..she was the only girl in my life and i am really having difficulties in forgetting her.HELP

Every year i send her a greeting card thru e-mail on her birthday..but she deletes it without even having a look at it.i cannot do that this year because she has stopped to check mails..I am 22yrs old and she is been the only girl in my life until now..i am really not able to forget her and i am going thru mental strain from the past 4yrs..i just wanna meet her and ask her y she left me..She had promised to me that she wud marry me when we both were in a relationship..can any girl tell me weather this female wud turn back or not?..i really love her a lot and i have been loyal to her from the past 4yrs thinking that she wud get back to me..hope she will come back..wat do u guys think?..

Answer 1

I feel sorry for you. But to be frank, "She will NOT get back to you". She just was not your woman. If she had really loved you, she wouldn't have left you like this.

Life is too short to spend on the wrong person. After all you are loosing a girl who doesn't love you.

Move on. There are lot of other girls in this world. You can definitly find another girl. One who needs you.

Best of luck and be a MAN.

Answer 2

DON'T LISTEN TO WHAT ANYONE ELSE SAYS, don't let them bring you down. whatever you do, don't start stalking her..try and be social..see below. You have to spark up some attraction.

You sound like a wuss..Toughen up...Ill help you since you seem desperate. Get in touch, be confident, and start having some fun, you seem to have low self esteem.. To get her back, try to start being good with girls in general, keep strong eye contact, some interesting things to talk about are other couples(friends), drama, movies, sex, never answer a question directly unless it's no. when you call her, say "Wait, just listen to me one last time" (don't blow this, most girls only give you one shot) sound desperate at first..say "I need to get this off my chest", "but I need to meet you in person.." if she doesn't go for it, then say "I've figured you out.." and she'll say something like "is that so?" say, "I know a lot of guys fall for this im beautiful, and aloof, and have an awesome personality, but I know something everyone else doesn't.." she'll say, "whats that?" say "Your as sensitive as a little girl, and if someone makes a awful remark to you, you may act like it doesn't affect you, but you'll go home, thinking about it all day..I wish your emotions were as enigmatic, and complex as mine are.." Then, to relieve some tension, start laughing, and say "I wonder if your hair still looks like , and start a conversation on a good note..get her to meet you, where you can demostrate confidence, with charm. Keep eye contact, lean back, and stay only interested in talking, for 10 minutes. Act like a new person.. I reccomend searching for some jokes..remember, YOUR the only one who needs to change..you only care about your success, in fact most people besides your family would rather see you fail..Unless you have some -true- friends which are hard to come by nowadays..

Tonight, look in the mirror, and say,"I like myself" 10 times in the mirror. Convince yourself that you deserve, and can hold exceptional women, don't have any hangups over sex.


IF-------THIS DOESN'T WORK.. try therapy :P

Answer 3

Dude,

She left and doesn't want to talk to you. It is OVER! Move on, whether you think it will be hard or not, it is what you need to do. I have found that even when people try to get back together and work things out, they DON'T WORK OUT. There is a reason it ended, whether you know what it is or not. Accept it! Quit dwelling on it, sitting around pouting about it is just going to make this last that much longer.

Go out, have fun, you never know who you may encounter.

Answer 4

honey i feel bad for you. I think u should keep trying. do whatever u can to get da luv of yo life back. But what would i no im only 12 lol

Answer 5

follow these intructions:
1. Put down your purse!
2. Say out loud "I AM A MAN!"

This should do the trick!

Answer 6

maybe its just not meant to be. ever think of that?

or do you consider her feelings.

maybe she dosent want you back.

so think of her first and stop being so slefish

Answer 7

LET IT GO! She never was your woman. "If you love it then let it go, if it comes back to you it was meant to be, if it doesnt then it never was yours to begin with."