what can i do to get my mind off of him..he says that i lie to him a lot but i take it as a joke.......and i called him a few seconds ago and said can i throw away the bear i won u at circus circus in LV he said no then he hung up sooooo wat do i do?
2006-07-14 10:20:57 · 46 answers · asked by kiwiroxursox7o7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he lied 2 me too and he always says that it's a joke but then i say u just lied and he would just yell at me and curse it realy get's on my nerves(please people leave nice comments i'm too mad 2 hear mean ones)
2006-07-14 10:32:23 · update #1
F*CK HIM, he doesnt care enough about you to do it face to face. O this guy is lame, immature, and inconsiderate. Take the bear set it on fire take a picture of it and e-mail it to him. You deserve more respect than that. Then to get him off your mind talk about everything you just did and all the reasons why it wouldnt have worked anyway.
2006-07-14 10:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by Karl J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget about "growing up" and "learning to spell". The first will happen in due time, the second, well that's why we have spell check! Don't throw away the bear yet either, you might get back together,and DONT call him back anymore to ask anymore questions!!!In this situation I have always said to myself, "Ive been dumped by better than him" Relax, think of other important things in your life and make some new plans. Don't stay home and feel sorry for yourself either, get out and do something with a friend!
2006-07-14 10:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by Silva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try hanging out with you friends if you want to get your mind off him or maybe do something you really enjoy like a day at the movies, or at the beach, or just listen to some music.
In a situation like this however, if you want to reconcile, then talk things over with him and allow the two of you to get your feelings out about something like this. Once both of you know how the other feels then forgive each other. Things can always be worked out between two people in a relationship really care about each other. I hope this helps.
2006-07-14 10:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by B N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait. His mind may be preoccupied with other things that may not be relevant to your relationship. If he is serious and by tomorrow still feels the same way, then dont even care about him. IT is hopeless to chase him because by then you will be doubly-slapped. Instead, jsut go look for someone else. Avoid the carnival for some time for it will just bring back old memories and cause you to be in hysterics all day. IF you are optimistic, then just wait. Wait for him to say he's sorry. Otherwise, dump him(instead of the opposite) and keep your head up high.
2006-07-14 10:22:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, does he have a right to be mad at you for lying? And, you know, you really need to focus in school. Bad grammar, soooo not appreciated. Im thinking if you cant even spell boyfriend, you shouldnt have one yet. Well, I personally think maybe he has an issue he's dealing with and is taking it out on you. Or you really could be a lier. OR you guys could be like 13 and not know what the hell is going on. Bottom line.....cut it out with these questions...Go read a book. take a swim, walk outside, throw the teddy bear out. If he broke up with you on the phone, he's not man enough to deal with emotions in person. What am I saying, he's probably not even a MAN man yet!!! And you....well, That's it....
Go to your room!
2006-07-14 10:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by Cloe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prove your not guilty of lieing or you can call him and ask that you keep going out. OH DON'T FORGET TO SAY SORRY!!!!!
P.S. EVEN THOUGH U DIDNT DO ANYTHING, SAYING SORRY CAN BE THE BEST WAY AND HELPS A LOT!(then if the anser is still NO tell another guy to come over and call your X-boyfriend and ignore him to talk 2 the other guy!)
2006-07-14 10:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually am a little to young to have a real boyfriend, but what the hell. Try to hang out with you closet friends or best friends or stay away from things that remember you about him. Don't think about him. Oh and if you are very mad at him just know that he does not deserve you
2006-07-14 10:24:54 · answer #7 · answered by Kbear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me lady u really really don't need him but still if u want him then just try to call him once twice or three times and if he does not listen to u just end up there with him u certainly will find many better then him and till u don't just be relaxed and don't think of it do as i say lady bcoz i really feel 4 that what happend with u believe me u'll be alright.
2006-07-14 10:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First learn to be happy with yourself; No-one completes you... someone can just add color to your being. Stop calling and letting him think that your desperate. Old saying, "There are many fish in the sea." You're going to think that your in love many times before you finally realize that you really are with someone who is really in love with you. Love takes time, respect yourself so others will respect you, and if they don't it's their lack of own self respect. Hold your head up high, concentrate on your education and self-esteem. Believe you me you'll laugh about this in the near future and even better you'll be feeling good about yourself. Take care.
2006-07-14 10:30:58 · answer #9 · answered by ELIZABETH W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it's true that you lie to him, that's the problem. What can you do? Grow up and stop lying. Calling him to talk about throwing away a bear after you just broke up is dumb.
2006-07-14 10:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by Apple21 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋