I am a virgin and im scared to get laid by a guy that is why m still a virgin. is that bad? coz I heard that it is so painful the first time
2006-07-14 09:50:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hell yeah! Why not? I don't understand what the pressure is to have sex. Anyone can do it - not many people have the self-control to wait.
2006-07-14 09:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by Princess Leia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not bad to be a virgin at 21. I passed that eight years ago. As far as getting "laid", you really should hold off until marriage, to pick the man you will be with the rest of your life. When in doubt, seek Him first. Pray and seek His guidance and friendship, because He is the best friend you will ever have. When the right man comes along, you will know and you will want to spend the rest of your life with him. Just as long as the both of you Love Him, the one who created the earth and everything in His realm. God Bless and Keep you! I hope what I have typed helps.
2006-07-14 16:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by jmbarcus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that painful, and if you want to have sex just do it. Besides, 21 year old virgin is only 19 years away from becoming the 40 year old virgin.
2006-07-14 16:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its no big deal. My girlfriend waited until 21, and I was 22, also a virgin, we lost it together. Theres really no rush, highschool is the hardest part, when everybodies "keeping score", but at this point you should do it when youre ready and when your comfortable.
And if you both TAKE YOUR TIME it shouldnt hurt that much.
2006-07-14 16:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by Charleton Sexton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 23 and I've slept w/ my share of guys. I wish I was a virgin. If you waited this long, I would wait till marriage. It is so worth it, believe me, I'm telling you from my own experience. And by the way, it doesn't hurt so your honeymoon won't be bad at all. Just wait, I really wish I did for real
2006-07-14 16:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by jso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lt's cool with me l was still a virgin until 2 weeks before my 23 birthday. l thought to whole idea of sex was a waste of time. lt's not worth it. Stay a virgin it's cool with me. Think of Morrissey he's 47 and still a virgin and he's the coolest.
2006-07-14 17:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are in a relationship where you know you both love each other and would want to spend the rest of yours lifes together. You shouldn't feel any pressure to lose your virginity.
2006-07-14 16:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by jjc92787 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course is cool to be 21 and still be a virgin. there is nothing wrong about that. just wait until you're ready.
2006-07-14 17:02:27 · answer #8 · answered by MISTERIOSA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cool to be a virgin of any age.Some people do experience
some discomfort , but don't concern yourself with that.
When you meet that special person & the time is right, you'll be
ok.
2006-07-14 17:02:38 · answer #9 · answered by anitababy.brainwash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not bad! it is a good thing! i would look for a girl that would be a virgin when we get married. just trust God to bring you a Husband! and He will give you one when you are spiritualy ready. dont look for love let love find you.
i have a freind that is mid-twenties and still not married and he is still pure, and a virgin
2006-07-14 16:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by c.nitram 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not painful like dying painful ..
you shouldn't be afraid of sex. but there's ntohnig wrong with being a virgin at 21 years old.
2006-07-14 16:53:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋