how come guys are so pushy for sex?

Question

when i tell him to wait as i'm not comfortable enough, he starts complaining that we're not teenagers anymore. isn't that a sign of lack of respect?

Answer 1

It is a lack of respect if you have shown you are not ready. And it has nothing to do with age! That is just a dumb guy excuse to get you in bed! Just like if he tells you how many girls would kill to be wiht him, etc. They are all lines. Don't believe them.

If he is not willing to wait, dump him and find someone who is.

My bf now always talks about how happy he is that I made him wait since no girl ever had b4. He has mad respect for me now.

Also, hats off to you standing your ground! I am happy to hear you respect yourself that much.

Answer 2

I am an older adult MALE and I remember well the urges I had as teenager. I still have urges but that is natural, the urges I had as a teenager were almost unnaturally strong. I seemed to not be able to think about anything else. It is called thinking with the small head. Now that is the fact but let me tell you how you need to respond.

Any young boy has the strong urges but his liking or love for you should be stronger than his urges or you should dump him.
If he does not respect you enough to not push you then move on and find someone who cares for you as a person instead of a relief for sexual tension.

My daughter gave in to the boys she was dating and now she has been divorced twice and still can't keep a boy friend for very long. She sleeps with them very early in their relationship. BAD!

Be care full also to always do active things with him. Don't let it happen to where you are all alone with him. That is BAD! Keep in groups or stay in public places with him. If he really cares he will understand.

Answer 3

Okay here we go

50% of guy's wanting to have sex is societal push. Guy's want to have that feeling of "oh yeah? well I had sex last night" We tell boys that sex is the ultimate feeling, the ultimate rush and sex makes you a man. Your boyfriend wants to be a man in his eyes and in the eyes of his friend. He wants you to walk around town going "oh yeah, my boyfriend is a good lover"

30% is biological. We feel the animal urge to do it.

10% is because he wants to make his mark on you. You'll see this come up again when he starts to beg for anal.

10% is because he recognizes that sex will be a fun experience and something that you can share together.

Answer 4

It has been scientifically proven that the only thing that the average human male thinks about, after the age of thirteen, every two seconds is sex. Therefore, they are biological incapable of processing anything else, other than eating (which they think about for the first second)

Answer 5

That's a HUGE lack of respect. He obviously views you as just an object. Dump him and find a real man.

Answer 6

Reverse psychology. Because they can't or because they're queer. This way rejection protects their bogus cover. This is general. Attenuate that to your situation. Nobody can without that blue pill. So it's a case of bsing yourself, obviously.

Answer 7

its a sign of lack of respect

Answer 8

Yeah but if you are not giving him ANY, maybe you are a lesbian or something. Guys are in their sexual prime much younger in life than women. See how you feel when your 40 and he never wants to do it with you.

Answer 9

to a certain degree it is. Tell him when you have reached a certain comfort zone he will know and you will be ready. Don't enter the situation if you are uncomfortable.

Answer 10

Its because men are built different form woman men are more eager to have sex just keep saying no until you are ready