OK so there are these 2 girls that I really like. 1 of them is a good friend and we talk a lot. The other girl is in my church and we have been dancing in a play for about 5 weeks. she is kind of quiet but is sweet sum1 please help.
2006-07-14 09:43:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you? I get the impression that you are still in either Junior High School or High School. Either way, you are too young to be in a committed relationship. This is the time to date a variety of girls and learn as much as you can.
What are their consistent likes and dislikes? What qualities do you really appreciate from each of the girls that you date? Does one treat you with more respect than the other ones? Does one (or more) give you warning lights in your head which tell you that there is something wrong with this relationship (If so, there is something wrong!)?
The more experience you get dating in school, the more personalities you will come across and the more you will truly learn what you really want in a relationship when you are ready be in a serious, committed relationship.
It is very important that you let all of the girls you date know that you are not looking for a committed relationship because you want to date a variety of ladies so you can really learn what it is that you are looking for. Be open and honest with them and always be concerned about their feelings. It is wonderful to make them feel special - just don’t lead them on or be dishonest with them.
2006-07-14 09:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are u ?? Our likes always keep changing. Well it is for u to decide who you like. It also depends if the girls like you or not. Do you want their friendship or you want to have a relationship with one of them ?? If it is only friendship u want then why choose. you can have as many friends you want. But if you are looking for a relationship then I guess first you should try to find out which of the girls has those feelings for u and then you can take it further from there. You will have to choose the girl who reciprocates your feelings. and you can still be friends with the other one.
Whatever you do please be tactful, so that you don't hurt the feelings of the girls. If they feel offended then you may lose their friendship as well. be careful. All the Best. God Bless.
2006-07-14 16:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by sudjenni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both can be friends, but you will have to ask God for help on this one. Pray for wisdom and guidance in the decision you need to make. Don't just go to God when you need His help, go to Him always! He can be the best friend you ever had, and the rewards of a relationship with God can be out of this world. God Bless! I hope this helps.
2006-07-14 16:48:37 · answer #3 · answered by jmbarcus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want a relationship? If not play both as long as you can. But losing that established friend would be hard
2006-07-14 16:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by ric_ozz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to both of them. There's nothing wrong with that. Once you figure out who is more compatible with you, go for her. The other one will just have to be a rebound if it doesn't work out with the first one.
2006-07-14 16:47:12 · answer #5 · answered by Gorgeous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which one does your gutt say to pick is it the church one or the school girl.which one do you realy care for ask yourself that and then go from there.
2006-07-14 16:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by vick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would of stayed with the good friend
2006-07-14 16:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by Psycho-Minion(Jeff Hardy Fan) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait wat do u want help with ???
im sorry i dont understand ur question, besides please help
mucho amor y respecto
peeeeeeeeeeeeeeace
2006-07-14 17:05:01 · answer #8 · answered by {{;*$! BIANCA_A.K.A_CARNE !$*;}} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋