i waz just walkin' w/ my friends wen i saw my bf kissing another girl. i love him & he loves he. he told it meant nothing 2 him & it waz just a mistake.
he waz down on his knees & i think i saw a tear!!!!
2006-07-14 09:36:17 · 36 answers · asked by *islandchick* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him...how do you know he'd be sorry about if he hadn't been caught? C'mon...you deserve MUCH better than this! Let him cry...he should. What a jerk!
2006-07-14 09:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 15⤊ 3⤋
A tear?? peeuw...what a putz.
Let me tell you something about cheaters, honey. The only reason he put on such a display is because he got caught. The only way he could kiss another woman by mistake is if you were all playing spin the bottle in a dark room! He meant to do it and he'll do it again if you take him back!
Kick him to the curb gf...he isn't worth it. Find a man who treats you like the goddess you are.
Only doormats take back cheaters. Are you a doormat or a strong indepedent woman???
2006-07-14 09:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by mynx326 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only time people are really able to change is when others give them a chance. Give him the benefit of the doubt and keep your guard up. Stay with him, but just enough to see if he truly cares. Trust is gained. Make him prove it. You can do it girl. I know it's hard for guys to cry, if at all possible, so give it a shot.best of luck.
2006-07-14 09:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its his first time cheating than I suppose you could give him another chance, but how do your lips kiss anothers by mistake. But if it happens twice get the hell outta there, cause now you know those tears were fake. Just remember this, he must not love you as much as you love him if he's kissing other people and your not.
LOVE GODDESS
2006-07-14 09:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him.
If you really care about him, give him another chance. If you catch him again, dump him.
If he always flirts with girls, and tries to keep you a separate part of his life away from any girls or his friends, dump him. He's probably with another girl right now while you're typing this.
If I were you, I would have dumped him on the spot and then yelled at the girl.
2006-07-14 09:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by xo_pina_colada_ox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, he's just sorry that you got him if you wouldn't of it probably would have went alot further, but the only reason why he got on his knees was to get pity from you and to show that he can make you vulnerable in the feelings that he knows you still have for him, if he did it once, he will do it again, so just move on and find a guy who will have real interest in you and enough respect for the relationship not to cheat on you....
2006-07-14 09:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a dude that's done that before. Leave him and don't answer phone calls. There are too many fish in the sea to hang around for a cheater. i'm out.
2006-07-14 09:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by Cody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never trust a guy and move on i know it hard a lot but you will be happy in your future this way the same thing happen to me a month ago and i broke up with him but i still love him a lot you will forget about him in time
2006-07-14 09:51:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an act... don't fall for it. Where were those feelings when he had his tongue down another girl's throat?
Find a real man sweetie.
2006-07-14 09:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez....well i dunno...how was it a mistake his tongue just accidentally slip into her mouth? Its your call cause i know how it feels to really love someone but at the same time you have to realize that sum **** is just wrong!
2006-07-14 09:42:50 · answer #10 · answered by BettyBoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tHE KNEE AND THE TEAR THING IS CAUSE HE GOT CAUGHT..My husband is on his 3rd tour of duty to Iraq and I have stayed faithful..if he really loved you he wouldnt have done it..A mistake is when you step on someones foot..a kiss is thought out..I am not buying it..
2006-07-14 09:41:22 · answer #11 · answered by heather b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋