why did god do this to me?

Question

i was born male and with klinefelter syndrome im 20 now, at age 13 i developed breast, i tried to hide them but i couldnt, my parents raising me in a christian house hold were very sweet and nice, at age 18 my parents had been in my room and saw all my bras that i had been using to hide my breast i was immidiatly kicked out, i later on learned that i was born with klinefelter syndrome why did got turn me into a transsexual?

Answer 1

Are you for real? Is this a true story? Anyways, I can't believe any "Christian" household would throw out their son without asking first what was going on. If that really did happen, then they aren't really christians! God does things so that we can sympathize with others and comfort them. Hope things look better for you.

Answer 2

You have to understand that everything God does, he does for a reason. The bible says that he'll never give you more than you can bear. Understand that while your parents were Christians... They really didn't understand the meaning of being truly Christ-like. Many people profess to be Christians and some actually live the life they speak of. Maybe your parents thought you were choosing to be a transsexual. It seems as if they were more concern with what you were doing, than why you were doing it. Have you ever thought to inform your parents of your disorder? Maybe if you allow them to see that it wasn't something you wanted, it's the way their genetics made you. Don't turn your back on God. Everything we experience in our lives are testimonies and maybe somewhere in the world there's a little boy who needs to know that he's not alone and there are others who share the same experiences. When life throws you lemons make lemonade. Start a support group or start a national organization that addresses your genetic disorder. And when you've done all you can do STAND!

Answer 3

Quite frankly, I don't think that God necessarily is responsible for everything that happens to us...

I mean, why do we have to blame it all on him? In your case:
Genes, pre-birth malformation, it could be a million things. Yes He knows everything-past, present and future... But all things happen for a reason... He has a purpose for interferring or Not intereffering in everything... Be patient and seek him, you'll see.

Look at my profile and you'll see, I could very easily blame him for what has happened to me, but it's not fair...He gave us the power of choice, we choose to do good or bad... He does not choose for us. That's of course speaking of my case...

I don't know anything about Klinefelter Syndrome, I don't know what causes it, I'm completely ignorant when it comes to this syndrome... what if it was caused by something your parents did while your mother was pregnant? (Please don't take this as me judging you or your parents). Maybe medicine or food that she was not supposed to consume? I've known of some syndromes that are caused by things like that...

God did not turn you into a transsexual...You are not a transsexual: you were born with a syndrome that caused you a malformation... And I bet you a million dollars that you are beautiful inside and out... xoxo

Answer 4

I feel for you because you are obviously confused and misguided and your childhood must have been very difficult.

I have the feeling this might be fake, but seeing as you have a female avatar I'm assuming that you are now living as a woman and it is likely that THIS is what your parents are upset about and not a syndrome that you could not have predicted or avoided.

Klinefelter's is a real disorder and a real thing, it is genetic and not something that you can help being. Your parents are blinded by their misguided faith and can't accept that these things happen to make us stronger people.

Jesus taught that we are to love our neighbor and not to judge him. Jesus was a hippy, he didn't believe in war or hate, he had us turn the other cheek and wash lepers and prostitutes. Your parents were not being very christlike.

I think that you should speak with a minister for spiritual counseling if you are to remain strong in your faith.

Answer 5

The breast development can be surgically corrected. you have a fairly common medical condition called gynecomasty.
Tell your parents why you resorted to bras in order to hide your genetic condition and that you are not a homosexual. Remind them that our Lord showed and exhorted his followers to show care and compassion to our fellow men and women, throughout the New Testament portion of the Bible. As for Kleinefelter's Syndrom visit an endocrinologist in order to get proper care, medication and counselling. You have a fairly rare medical condition that can be treated, and you ARE entitled to such treatment.
It is not your fault and try not to harbor self-guilt.
Try google for Kleinfelter's syndrom patient's groups, they'll have other suggestions for you to make your life as happy, guilt free and comfortable, as possible.
Best regards and the best of good luck,
Dan the Answers-Man.

Answer 6

First, let me say that I am so sorry that you are suffering. A lot of people who are suffering ask the very question that you did. But it is important to realize that God is not responsible for all the bad things that happen. I am not going to waste a lot of space trying to convince you of this, but I will include a link that talks about why God has permitted suffering for so long. I really hope you wil take the time to read it.
http://www.watchtower.org/library/w/2001/5/15/article_01.htm

Answer 7

I'm not sure that any words I have to say can help you fully understand your current situation.
The question we should ask ourselves when we find ourselves in times of struggle or unimaginable hardship isn't 'why did God do this to me"... as much as it should be "why did God allow this to happen."
I do not believe that God, out of spite or anger or bitterness, caused you to have this condition. I do, however, believe that God, in His eternal wisdom which far surpasses anyone on earth, allowed you to have this condition... but for what reason, I can only speculate. Nothing in this world happens without God allowing it to happen... and He has a very real purpose for allowing it to happen... for either His purpose, or humans' free will. The Bible tells us in Jeremiah 29:11 (New Living Translation)
"For I know the plans I have for you,' says the LORD. 'They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope."
God sees everything that happens to you and has a purpose for it. It is very hard to see sometimes what His purpose could possibly be.
I would spend a lot of time in prayer and earnestly seek what His will is for you. The important thing to remember is that we must learn to be content with who we are and how God made us... even though it may be extremely difficult at times.

Here's some fair warning. You will be greatly discouraged by what some people will have to say to you on this site. I'm glad I can answer you and I hope what I have to say will help you some, but please don't listen to most people on this site, because they are just out to hurt and cause confusion.

And I'm not sure what the one answerer means by us choosing our parents and life's circumstances before we come to earth... It's all in God's hands. If we had a choice of who our parents would be and our life's circumstances do you think ANY of us would be where we are... she sounds kind of spacy to me.

Answer 8

Sometimes people see the world against them, much like you are seeing god against you now. However, it isn't anyone's fault that you have been made the way you are--it is nature, and bad or good, one cannot control the outcome of genetics or determine the "why"… you can, however, determine "what"--what you are going to do about it, "how"--how you are going to live life to its fullest, "when"--when you must take action and stand up for yourself and "who"--determine who is going to be there for you, and who isn't.
There is a purpose for you and your life. God gave you breath to enjoy the gift of living... and though it will be a hard struggle for you, the strength you gain from your life's journey will be something to feel good about--you can be a victim, or you can be a survivor. You can even be a help those who suffer similarly by starting your own website, blog, giving talks or even writing a book... By finding others who share your journey you will feel you aren't alone and realize that there are those that can be there for you... by helping others who share your journey, you can give hope to others who might feel as lost as you did in your adolescence... if anything this is a test of your parents’ spirituality. God is not punishing you, for you were given the gift of life--but he might now see that there is cloud over the hearts of those who could make you feel so badly for being alive in his world just for being unlike his average creations...
Your parents should have been more caring and discussed your closet’s contents. Were you cross-dressing on purpose? I don't think so--you were trying to cover up something that you saw as embarrassing. You were trying to conform to a culture where "different" is almost always equal to "bad" and the roles of gender are always under critical fire. If your parents could not see they were being ridiculous and not truly being your parents, those who are meant to guide, it is unfortunate. It hurts, because they are your family, but they also have big issues with their own upbringing and cultural misgivings if they will ignore the needs--both mental and physical--of their own child.
If your parents won't accept you, even after you have tried to explain your condition... and if they can't accept your condition, then give them space and time. You don't know if they will ever come around if they treated you so poorly to begin with. Until then, you can create yourself a new family--people who treat you like the wonderful human being that you are now and have potential to become. Whether you decide to fulfill the role of man, woman, or transgendered--or even decide to resort to surgical methods--this is your decision, your chance for happiness, your chance for finding you, and your LIFE. Don’t blame god and be a victim, stand up and make life happen and don’t let negative people, even if they are your biological family, stand in your way. Good Luck to you.

Answer 9

God didn't do it to you...although I know it's an easy target for blame.

Before we incarnate and we are still in the spiritual plane as souls, we choose our life's circumstances. We choose major issues that we will have to deal with and who our parents will be among other things. These choices are part of the free will given to us by God.

However, once here, we still have choices. We have the power to attract our own experiences into our existance by the universal law of attraction.

The law of attraction is that the vibrations (via our conscious or unconscious beliefs, thoughts, emotions, words, actions) we put into the world, and whether they are positive or negative, love-based or fear-based, lead to the events that we experience in return, in one form or another.

These vibrations occur singly, by individuals and collectively, by societies and cultures in the form of world-wide events such as weather and health related issues such as natural disasters or pandemics or political events such as terrorism or war.

You chose this for yourself, before you were born, for a reason. You need to find out what you can learn and how you can grow, spiritually from it.

Sending you love, light and blessings.

Answer 10

God did nothing of the sort. Genetics did. I'm sorry you are troubled with this there are many support groups out there to help you try and live a normal life and make some friends who you can relate to.

Email me if you need help finding some.