i love my husband but he is so moody but when it comes to the neighbours conversations and all that he is so nice, does he dislike us as a family, we have 2 kids 17 and 13 and treats them the same way sometimes is it me that he doesnt like ? we have a good sex life and relationship also!
he is a GEMINI and def think that the stars hold the answer
2006-07-14 09:27:31 · 20 answers · asked by womam12 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i can add nothing is bothering him also!
2006-07-14 09:35:23 · update #1
There are a lot of men like that. I think sometimes they feel they don't need to make any effort with their family because they will always be there and love them unconditionally but the man feels he has to put himself across as being really nice to other people who would otherwise not think much of him. My partner is a Taurus and my dad is Aries, they are both as you described(except my partner doesn't even want a sex life with me so that is one thing you should be grateful for!) so I don't think it is in the stars!
2006-07-14 09:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by Evil J.Twin 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Gemini are very moody people with the neighbours he doesn't like to show them how he really is at home he is relaxed but make you miserable ask him if he can try to not be a hard *** at home maybe it will work. I am Gemini female very moody but I have leaned to control it better with my family. Maybe he can to .
2006-07-14 09:43:49 · answer #2 · answered by kayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your perception of the relationship being good is incorrect, he may not feel the same way now as he did 17 years ago - talk with him, sounds like he likes having the company of others, might be feeling bored with you - why would the stars hold any answer?
2006-07-14 09:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by Random Name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not in the stars, but in the planets. Read the Mars and Venus book by John Gray and you'll understand. Just leave him alone if he's moody and welcome him when he's back. Admire what he builds or achieves. Ask him for advice and don't argue over it. Make him feel a man and in charge for a while, not your equal or partner. It 'll inspire him to love you more. Some men need to feel the captain of their fate.
2006-07-14 09:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by Enduringwisdom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your name but you wrote to me saying I was anti Irish, a lazy trucker,either are further away from the truth.... and a few other things of which I responded to in a rude manner..this isn't my nature as a rule, but I saw red.... Since then I have thought of what I had written and would like to offer you an apology....2 wrongs don't make a right....
For the record I am in France in an appartment(not Villa), I don't work here as the french do not recognize my licence, and thinking of coming back for that reason....
So one day we might meet at a truckstop and I will buy you a coffee.
Again my apologies to you
keep trucking (but not to fast)
Pete
2006-07-14 21:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by peter_bain2003 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is nice when he has to be.
with the family, he feels that he can show his true feelings, without being polite.
I can sympathise with this, my ex-husband was the same.
Try going outside, ring the doorbell and pretend to be a complete stranger.
If he is then too nice to you, divorce him!
Nothing to do with the stars, mine was a Taurus.
2006-07-14 09:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by catrin l 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is going tho i crisis my dad was the same he is very moody when he dose this sometimes even crys for no reason he is probable depressed you need to get him to be happy and talk to him find out what is wrong and don't get mad at his answer just use some understanding
2006-07-14 09:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by Johnathon M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not fair...I'm Gemini and I'm as mad as a hatter...ohhh did i just admit that... well I'm not moody, bloody funny at times, crazy at others... but always laughing.
So i guess its just him then.
Maybe he just doesn't have common ground to talk anymore...he feels its all been said, so find something NEW to do together, be brave and try something you have never done before...it might just prove to be the melting point and you can laugh and talk again.
2006-07-14 09:33:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its coz he loves you all and you all love him that makes him think he can get away with getting on like that. Weird that you would think it would be the other way around but then again welcome to the back 2 front world of a mans mind.
2006-07-14 09:46:27 · answer #9 · answered by marty d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad was the same. I saw him as a selfish, bigotted, petty minded little man. It was only at his funeral I found out people outside the family thought the sun shone out of his @rse.
2006-07-14 09:43:36 · answer #10 · answered by Rust Bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋