i mean it was good but i got mah morals now n im self-cautious
2006-07-14 09:16:54 · 28 answers · asked by caver_07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to see a psychologist.
2006-07-14 09:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by Goblue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW! First things first, you're only 11 years old and it is 100% illegal! But I think I can understand how you feel. Honestly, I felt sorta like that most of my life... I know it's a somewhat big age difference but, what if you had sex at like 7 years old, how would you feel then? What if you became pregnant (I could careless if you're using condoms or not, the fact is basicly condoms don't help much at all!)? You would feel as if your life was over! You would throw up all the time while pregnant and if you got over that, some (a lot of people, justn not the majority) people die while giving birth! And if you went through abortion, you might as well go on murder someone, im not saying go kill someone, but for all you know if you got pregnant & went through abortion, you could have killed the next albert einstien!! but to answer ur question: hell yeah it's good & just dont or you might end up like a friend of mine who got pregnant @ 13 & found out he just used her and next thing after that, i watched her kill her self by jumping infront of a metra. just dont do it, u'll understand me wen ur older & b thankful u didnt do it. & if ur 11 & he wants sex, he will just want to use you- true w/ 99.999999999% cases in usa
2006-07-14 16:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean, self-conscious,dear. But it's understandable if you had sex way too early, and yes, 11 is way too early, to react like that. You're probably a teen now, and I don't know the whole story, but you should be happy that you at least know the consequences of having sex, and feel good that you're actually gonna be taking sex decisions in a really cautious (and smart) manner. Don't be too scared, though. Just remember to know the consequences of your actions. I knew one person who started as young as you did, but then kept going and going and going, and well, that person's got the kids and diseases to prove it. Lots of hugs and understanding!
2006-07-14 16:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by minerva779 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U HAD SEX AT 11!!
i know y ur scared u probably had a bad experience wen u had sex at 11 & u should tat is way 2 young 2 have sex!
2006-07-14 16:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by *islandchick* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think having sex at a young young age. You didnt really know what you were doing and you though it would be fun. and you learned somethings. Maybe because the person you were with didnt really tell you if you were good or bad. and know your scared of having sex cause you dont want to be bad. or what the preson might say. Its like kissing. You learn how to be better by doing more and learning from your partner. but always make sure your are safe and pull out so you dont get your partner worried if she messes a period. but I highly suggest you have sex when you think your ready to have a family. having sex is fun dont get me wrong but its not right to be having it right now.
2006-07-14 16:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by allie laught alot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex at 11? What is this world coming to? Im scared for you! you should wait till you are 25 now!
2006-07-14 16:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful. There all kinds of bad things out there for young girls. Diseases, pregnancy, not to mention a bad reputation. My daughter is 10 and I would be absolutely heartbroken if she had sex so young. That is just too young. Keep your morals, honey, and things will go so much better for you!
2006-07-14 16:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't have sex, at your age, you are starting down the wrong path. Sex is important and it should be treated with care and love. Do not let people tell you otherwise. You are a precious human being and you should only be sexually close to someone who cherishes you. So wait until you are older and find someone who loves you deeply and will share their life with you. Remember if you don't have respect for yourself, people will treat you like you don't deserve any respect
2006-07-14 16:26:02 · answer #8 · answered by magpie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take your time. There's no reason to have sex if you're not comfortable with it. Especially if it's a morals issue. You might want to talk to a professional about it, though.
2006-07-14 16:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by Princess Leia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your morals are what define you... if you think it's not all that or you're just waiting for the right individual to come along, stick with the plan, you'll love yourself for it!!!
2006-07-14 16:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by unknown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex again until you are much older. You can't have "good" sex taht young anyway. Give your body time to mature.
2006-07-14 16:19:41 · answer #11 · answered by Liz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋