my boyfriend always wants a lapdance from me..but he never gets one because i am not that kinda girl.. i just cant.. plus im not confident with my body. like we joke about it.. he knows hes never gonna get one no matter how special the occasion is.. but what is a way to show him.. or make him happy ..on the sexuality scale?
2006-07-14 08:51:22 · 7 answers · asked by girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your not comfortable with a lap dance, then what are you comfortable with? Just wear something scimpy and dance around him/on him. Maybe buy Carmen Electa's strip aerobics, you might get some good tips, practice before you do it to him. U may not like your body, but your guy does or he would have moved on by now. I say try to ge over your insecurities. Also be glad he's not out paying for that since you won't do it.
2006-07-14 09:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as long as he doesn't expect any one else to watch, where is your problem actually? Do you only have sex in the dark so he never sees you completely naked?
I'm convinced he really likes you and your whole body, this should make you very confident around him.
2006-07-14 15:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by swissnick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen girl, he is your boy friend, he woudnt be with u if he didnt like you, he obviously likes ur body so dont be so self councious about ur body around him but if u dont wanna give a lapdance tell him to stop buggin u or dump him
2006-07-14 15:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by Byahhhhhhh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love him, you should do it for him. he loves you enough to love you and your body for what it is. You dont love him, if you are afraid for him to see you that up close and personal. You say you are not that kind of girl, all women are supposed to be "that kind of girl" with the one(s) they love! Give it time!
2006-07-14 15:54:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
take him to a strip club and get him one there
2006-07-14 15:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by Smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why wouldn't you do it? I say give him one i see nothing wrong with that
2006-07-14 15:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by MARY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you've told him and if he don't respect that then get another guy who does.
2006-07-14 15:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by aluminum22rocker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋