2006-07-14 08:38:46 · 12 answers · asked by Princesse T. 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
there is this guy that I know. Words cannot describe how I love him, And he feels the same for me. The problem is that While we love each other totally, we hate each other also. When we are in a relationship with each other We don't get along. I wouldn't say that we fight... we just aren't compatible. I would say that we are Soul-Mates Just not meant for each other. It's a weird situation. Anyhoo... when we see each other, sparks fly again and we " have a little fun". That doesn't make me a terrible person. I'm just not like other people that say "he is with her or he isn't... He loves you or he doesn't.." Things aren't always black and white, there is a whole Grey area out there. I have been in a relationship when he comes back around, and so has he, but that hasn't stopped us. When I get in a relationship I let the guy know from the beginning how this works, and he is either fine with it or he isn't. I only consider him to be the exception to the rule... no other. And he does the same. See, what I am getting at is that a relationship can be so many things. I am married now so that indiscretion doesn't happen anymore. And my husband was fine with it when we were dating. But when he put that ring on my finger He said that I was his... and only his. And I accepted. I hope in some way this has helped you. Good Luck!!
2006-07-14 09:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you seriously asking if you should cheat? If this guy were your boyfriend, how would you feel about him doing what he's doing with you with another girl?
Move on and find someone who isn't attached- if he wanted to date you, he wouldn't be with his current girlfriend.
2006-07-14 08:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say... but if he has a girlfriend - he is not in love with you.
2006-07-15 18:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by Chela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to to agree if he has a girlfriend than he DOES NOT love you he loves his girlfriend. so all i can say is get over urself and move on he does not love you
2006-07-14 08:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you, he would be with you. Do not think about the cheating thing. Think about the other girl. She has no idea what is going on and she has nothing to do with it. What if you were her? Don't lower yourself.
2006-07-14 08:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by katierose18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. If he really loved you then he wouldn't have another girlfriend right now. He's just telling you that he loves you so that you will sleep with him. Please don't be dumb enough to fall for it.
2006-07-14 08:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure.. you go right ahead and let him knock you off and then go back to his girlfriend like you don't mean anything. I am sure that would be the best thing to do......
seriously though... if he loves you he will be with you and not her... don't let him have his cake and eat it too...
2006-07-14 08:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't leave his girlfriend then maybe he is lyin about how he feels about u. if he doesn't leave his girlfriend and says he loves you then he wants the best of both worlds have his cake and eat it too
2006-07-14 08:42:14 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you cant do anything if he loves you and he is with a tother girl he has to step up a be a man and brake it off with her if you get involved it will only be drama talk to him and see what he is thinking that is all you can do
2006-07-14 08:44:21 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it. how would you feel if your boyfriend cheated on you? besides, you'e setting yourself up for hurt and disappointment if you find yourself falling for him again but he won't leave his girlfriend.
2006-07-14 08:42:55 · answer #10 · answered by Jbeth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋