ok my boy friend is in jail has been for 3months he is waiting for a space to open up 4 adult boot camp he has to go there for 3months but there is no telling how long its gona take for him to get a space....an the reason he went to jail is bc he got a dui and his buddie he had in the car with himm had pills ...my male says the reason he got drunk in the first place was bc we had a HUGE fight an we did....im confused i love him but him going to jail has really had me thinking i want a break? should i tell him or just let him think we are ok.. he is already having a hard time in jail an i no it will crush his heart....HELP WHAT DO I DO?
2006-07-14 08:34:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People will think I am calous. But he is in jail. You were having problems before he went. It is better to let him know now so he can spend his time in there getting over you. You are a very pretty young woman, you will be able to find pleanty of men. It might be time to let this one go.
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2006-07-14 08:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by Bacchus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me help you out, I was in prison and married shortly after she divorced me. I was upset of course because i couldn't have felt any more alone but, I really thought about it and it would have been very selfish of me to want her to be alone.
Right now you will have to do what is best for you.He will be alright theres alot of time to think about things but he will be in boot camp so he will be lucky if he has time to ****.
Do your thing and see how things go when he gets out,it is better for a man to be single while incarcerated for the simple fact that that is less to catastrophize about.
Good luck sweetheart.
2006-07-14 15:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by "THE BEAST" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all i would suggest that you think long and hard about this guy because, jail does change the way a person thinks and feels. do you think that he is going to change? do you actually have deep feelings for him? are you willing to wait till he gets out and have to deal with probation. driving him everywhere. is he going to stop drinking? all that crap. you look like a vary beautiful woman and a good head on your shoulders. if you doubted the relationship before he went to jail then take this opportunity to be free, go out, enjoy yourself. and if you find that it wont be the same because he is not there with you then byall means wait for him. don't let life go bye while you wait for someone..
2006-07-14 15:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by kispioxman2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break . He did this to you, and now you are suffering. You should tell him that while he is incarcirated you are going to do your thing. It is that simple. He broke the law and yet you are suffering. So go on and do your thing.
2006-07-14 15:42:28 · answer #4 · answered by cal-p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him and come find me
2006-07-14 16:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by snuffy_muffy_eater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss my ***
SUCKIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-14 15:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by manpreet mann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋