ALL MY LIFE i HAVE STOLE FROM STORES AND MY FAMILY. i OBCE EVEN STOLE LIKE 1200 DOLLARS FROM MY ANT I HAVE BEEN UNTRUSTWORTHY OF BOYS CAUSE I HAVE BEEN KNOWN TO DO BAD THINGS WITH THEM (NOT SEX ) AND I HAVE STOLEN ALLLLLL MY LIFE AND I NEEED HELP BAD
THINK YOU COULD HELP?
2006-07-14 08:27:59 · 18 answers · asked by Violette C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well vi i have been living with you all my life and i was real bad like you one time but i changed and i just dont see why you cant. I have no advice for you. I have given all i could but you dont listen
2006-07-14 08:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by Nicolette Martin 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Are you really ready to change? No advice in the world will make or help you change until you are ready. Most people who have done something like this for so long don't get help until they've hit bottom. Girl, you better realize what you have in a family. You spend any amount of time on line and you'll see people who don't have family and wish they did. Don't drive your family from you. I don't know how old you are, but if you want things you need to get a job, earn the money, and buy them. STOP STEALING!!! You'll wind up lonely and maybe even DEAD before your time!
2006-07-14 15:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by pottersclay70 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the temptation arises, you have to think about how this will hurt the one you are stealing from. Walk away and then feel how wonderful it that you did the right thing. Sometimes, doing the right thing feels just as good , if not better, then self serving your desire. Most teens go through this for a short while until they see how it hurts others. You can change and asking for help is the first step.
2006-07-14 15:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by The Kings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! If your SISTER couldn't get you back on the right track, it sounds like the only thing that is going to help you now is what appears to be coming next - hard time behind bars.
When you get there, and it sounds like you will, sadly, look into a couple of English classes. Having a mastery of the language will be to your advantage upon your release. Good luck.
2006-07-14 15:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by Tad Dubious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first step is you must want to change. You must truely in your heart want to change. If you can do that you have taken a huge step. Next I would say seek some professional help. Be as honest with them as possible and make sure you work with someone you can trust and you believe can help you. With motivation for success and the correct resources you can do anything!
2006-07-14 15:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by da-chi-town-man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here are a few things you can do
1.read the bible: you will not believe how many people have done bad things, but yet god still forgave the
2.get a job: if you can pay off people you stole from, you just might fell better about yourself{believe me, i know it's hard, but you can do it}plus it will keep you busy
3.find someone to talk to:a parent, relative, siblings, friends, counselors, and anyone who will listen.
you don't have to go through life like this. you can change ,i know you can
if you need someone to talk to email me at tomboy3443@yahoo.com
i hope you get better
2006-07-14 15:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by ktpunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are really ready to change, just do it. Its a good thing that you can admit it, but I doubt that you are really ready to stop yet. A healthy religious belief is the prefered cure, and I doubt that you will ever be able to stop on your own. It takes something within.
2006-07-14 15:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by jack f 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first get an education, spelling, grammar, and language give you esteem, people with esteem behave better, if you are a clepto though you need a dr. and counselor. You need to follow your families advice, stop acting out and act right now, grow up girl.
2006-07-14 15:43:55 · answer #8 · answered by ROBIN C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this question seems like ur willing to change...thas great....i really feel u shud make sumthing out of ur life n relly stop steeling....it will get u no where, mess ur reputation n make u seem like a bad n untrustworthy person....u shud go outt, try to apologize to ur family n friendz for wut uve done..n promise urself not to ever do dat again........if ur friends n family loves u, im sure they'll forgive u...thaz only if u show them u've changed......steeling isnt a gud habit n can turn alot worst in d future......go get a job....its not as bad as u prolly think it is.....n it will help u gain ur respect n reputation back...=]
2006-07-14 15:35:39 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ AnGeL ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the bible. You're really not too much worse off than anybody on the planet right now. At least you said so. You should cut that stuff out. You know that.
2006-07-14 15:32:07 · answer #10 · answered by vanamont7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of your favourite posession (clearly not a dictionary!!) and imagine how it would feel if someone took it from you, that is how other people feel
The only help you need is to help yourself.
2006-07-14 15:44:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋