I was always the one known for having big boobies.. now i met her and she is gorgeous and has bigger boobies than me. i know i sound like the stupidest girl alive.. but it bothers me.. i sometimes think my boyfriend might think shes better than me. imagine being in my shoes?.. and everytime i see her..i always see something nice about her and find a way to get mad at my boyfriend about it.. why do i do this?.. am i this insecure about myself?
2006-07-14 08:22:39 · 19 answers · asked by girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep up that kind of attitude and you will lose your boyfriend. I think you should stop being so insecure and on the contrary, you should say nice things about his sister to him. He will respect you for that. If you start fights with him because his sister is pretty, he will just look for another girl who will not be so insecure about herself. Just remember that everyone is beautiful and boobs are just a body part. Be beautiful on the inside. Not a jealous and an insecure girl.
2006-07-14 08:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by italian_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live in WV I would be worried I think incest is legal there. Other than that I would not worry about her and yes you are insecure. Don't get me wrong I like a nice set of boobies but there is much more to a person than their looks.
To get jealous of anyone, especially your BF's sister is ridiculous and shows that you are not comfortable with yourself.
I am sure you missed my post about how a woman can keep a man but rest assured your methods are bound to drive your BF away. Chill out and just accept people for who they are and relax and be yourself. Associate with excellence and you can never go wrong.
If you want my opinion on who's boobs are better send me pics of yours and his sisters and I will be honest.
2006-07-14 15:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by jeepfaust 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I gather from your question, you are jealous of your boyfriend's sister, and you're afraid he will find her more attractive than you?? This is messed up, honey! You are either insecure or you need some therapy. By his sister having larger breasts than yours, and you're getting mad at him for it, it's not his fault. He's going to dump you on your a** if you don't knock it off.
Why don't you get to know her instead of judging her by her breast size?
2006-07-14 15:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by Hello Dolly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your afraid to allow yourself to know you are better than "boobies". you know you are but you are afraid that your friends breast will be a distraction to your boyfriend. So, insecure. a little but more than that you seem to be afraid to tell your self you got the boobs that got and if you work them right...you'll keep him!
For Petes Sake.......................it is your boyfriends sister...if he wants those boobs go and let him have four legged kids!!!!
2006-07-14 16:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl: you're thinking wrong.
That is insecurity, and that will get you nowhere.
You are not in competition with his sister, and nice things about her or any member of his family or friends should not cause you to become angry with him. Having a nice sister and family and friends means that he is probaby nice too, be nice to him.
italian_princess: well said!
2006-07-14 15:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by redsoxfan11x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are insecure. don't worry about your boyfriend thinking about his sister, he doesn't think about his sister in that way. My brother doesn't even want to think about my breasts. Remember, your boyfriend is with you because he likes everything about you. Stop picking fights with him over silly things or you are going to lose him
2006-07-14 15:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get real.will u sleep with your gorgeours brother? i dont think so . U are just feeling insecure it is natural and suppose to say u are still young with time u will out grown it.
2006-07-14 15:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by ndidi n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What planet are you from??? That is his sister. If you see something that there may be something going on there, you need to run. If not, take a chill pill. Who knows, maybe he needs to run.
2006-07-14 16:17:43 · answer #8 · answered by dizzyangels321 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you get mad at your boyfriend if that's his sister??? it shouldn't bother you. i think your jealous of her. and there's no reason to be. shes not going to try to be with your man (her brother) so let loss.
2006-07-14 15:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by MICHELLY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have some issues... why would you be concerned about his sister? If he wanted her he wouldn't be going out with you. Weird.
2006-07-14 15:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋