Guy has been in & out of rehab for the past 5 years.. just moved to our city. He is in church & AA, his aunt paid for his rehab & gave him a place to stay & helped him get job with her husband. First 6 weeks he was here was still communicating & saying he wanted to get back with his ex, which he doesn't know I know this, he said they were just friends & talked, who is seperated from her husband & lives in another city, we started as friends & then I got really sick & he stayed with me for a week in hospital & now he says he is in love with me & I am his girlfriend & I really like him... do you think he could go from being so in love with her to loving me in just a few weeks. I have read emails he sent her & text... he sent text day before I went in hospital saying he loved her and tried but didnt' get to see her while I in hospital, he told her he loves me & it broke her heart and she said they couldn't be friends... he really be in love with her 5 years then now be in love with me
2006-07-14 08:21:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sent her email few weeks before I got sick saying he was feeling emotionally needy and his email to her were so full of love... don't know if he could really change his feelings so quickly... she is married and he is angry because she was supposed to get divorced and just now after 3 years is is seperated... he says he still loves her but as a friend... think so??
he sent her 3 emails after telling her about me saying he was worried and she never responded and he hasn't contacted her anymore.. is that encouraging???
2006-07-14 08:22:18 · update #1
I'd be careful,sounds like he is on the rebound.U can't love someone that quick because its not love.Love grows over time(years),it doesn't happen over night so to speak.Just be careful.....
2006-07-14 08:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by hoop_102 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, I feel he is 'using' you? I believe in love at first sight or love in a short period, but having said he love you and yet in contact with his ex, I feel he's just using you to past his lonely times. Get it clear with him and if he's not serious with you like he ask you to give him some time to get over his ex, forget about him and move on. There's so many other nice guys around you.
2006-07-14 08:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, it is called transfer of emotions... it is true that you are a "rebound" he is very vulnerable right now and you are feeling a void that he has. as long as his ex is dissin him... you have nothing to worry about. please realize that she has valuable information for you about his patterns, way he opperates, etc. if you can find a way to get in touch with her, befriend her, she can share valuable information that will be very helpfull to you... and also if she ever plans on taking him back. good luck
2006-07-14 08:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by DIONN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a tricky situation, i think the best thing to do is give him some space and time to figure things it really just sounds like he is very emotional right now and needs someone to be there for him.
2006-07-14 08:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gir run leve him along it happen to me i never cryed sow much in my 41 years listen let it go start dealing with the hurt sow tomorrow can be a better day ok email me and let me know what is going on ok ' annabell0726652003@yahoo.com
2006-07-14 08:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by annabello726652003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say one- your off the rebound may or may not work
or Second- sometimes you can fall in love that quick, but rarely
2006-07-14 08:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe you should give him a chance but keep an eye open to see if he is still trying to contact her GOOD LUCK
2006-07-14 08:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by nena24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds confused. He doesn't know what or who he wants. You're better off giving yourself some space from him. Don't be his rebound!
2006-07-14 08:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by mandydc3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and once an addict always an addict. It is just a matter of time before he relapses. Do yourself a favor and move on
2006-07-14 08:33:04 · answer #9 · answered by cal-p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope!
2006-07-14 08:25:33 · answer #10 · answered by Alzin Dorain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋