I tell my boyfriend whats wrong but he gets angry or gets an attitude. The things keep building and I do not know how much longer I can take it. I love him and I am trying to look past it all but it's not working.
2006-07-14 08:14:52 · 7 answers · asked by unnamedgirlie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey look u have to get him to listen if u really want to be with him. if u hold this feelings in they r just gonna build up and make thngs worse, so if u cant get him to listen to u only, get someone u both trust to sit in, men usually keep there kool better if there is someone else there but u have to tell him, dont let fear get in the way.... cuz in the long run u will only start to hate him
2006-07-14 08:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by mylife 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋
If the problem is him, he is defensive. Maybe you should rephrase the way you are saying it so it doesn't seem like an accusation. Also, make sure you keep telling him throughout the conversation that you really love him and are trying to share this with him so you can work it out because you don't want to fight anymore. Also, it is vey important to own up to your own mistakes and be open minded to his point of view. Problems aren't usually one-sided.
If he still isn't open to talking, give him some breathing room, and ask him to just think about it.
2006-07-14 08:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by mynickname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would most likely be better off with someone else. If your boyfriend won't listen to you and care about what you say, there's not a lot of hope.
2006-07-14 08:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by clarity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give him any booty until he loses the attitude. If he does not get past the problem he may possibly be gay.
2006-07-14 08:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by PISC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's not working, break up with him. Why not tell him that if his communication style doesn't change, you'll break up with him.Then, if he still cops an attitude when you try to talk to him, break up with him. Then, if he really wants to be with you, he'll change.
2006-07-14 08:21:34 · answer #5 · answered by LSD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he can not listen to you and cares enough to listen to what bothers you get out I know its hard for any one who is in love but think of what is best for you
2006-07-14 08:19:00 · answer #6 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably moody / sensitive. Give it time, it will probably sink in that he is being childish.
2006-07-14 08:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by trigunmarksman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋