how do i fix me?

Question

every time i see a sharp object - i wonder what it would be like to cut myself. I think of it as - If i cause pain on the outside, my pain on the inside will go away right? I kno i shouldnt be thinking about this .. but I cant help it - I really think I am depressed and I need help. How do I fix me?

Answer 1

i dont feel the same way but i think i understand this..its like letting the toxins out right? let me just say, unlike blood your problems wont just flow out...
you should turn to God for help and see a doctor about these thoughts...
good luck

Answer 2

It's a good thing you are aware you might have a problem. While it can be "just a phase," it can also be a sign of more serious issues.

You really can't fix yourself. As some has suggested, you need to see a professional for help.

My personal preference will be to see a doctor (MD) first to rule out medical issues such as chemical imbalance, or some other medical causes. Then see a psychologist to see if there are issues that you are unaware, but nevertheless experiencing. By this time, it should be clear if you need a psychiatrist, which will try to treat you with medication.

Don't wait too long. Get the process started - SOON.

P.S. Why are some people making fun out of this situation?

Answer 3

You never want to hurt yourself to fix what is the problem on the inside. The outer pain will not fix the inner pain. This is a suggestion to help you deal with life.
1. Write down all what you think is wrong with your life in one simple words.

2. Write down reason you feel that way to to each problem.

3. If you can believe that there is a God then pray to him about everything you wrote down.

4. Before you finish praying tell God to help you through your depression and guide you into a new light.

5. Start making changes that you don't like about your life. (take it one issue at a time and do as much as you can do)

6. Life is too precious to let little things make you go crazy.

Answer 4

well first of cutting urself on the outside will do nothing but cause u more pain cause it will hurt now u got the pain on the out and inside best way to deal with a issuse is head on if u can if u don't think u can turn to a friend or family member you be surpised where the best advice comes

P.S. remember no matter how bad you got it there is someone with it worse than u ex. i am in iraq have not seen my 2 kids in a year and beieve me this place is so boring not ot mention it sucks weather is 100-110 daily and dust and sand storms did i mention iraq has no sewer system so yeah it is pretty back in most places so cheer up if u need a shoulder to cry on or to talk to drop me a im ok smile things will get better

Answer 5

speaking as a former cutter, i can tell you that it only helps for the first few minutes...then everything in your life hurls back at you. cutting doesn't fix anything. remember how it'll look, how it'll feel...and how it'll look to others as well. there is no good to cutting. i thought there was too...now i'm 27 (started at 15 or so)...and even though i stopped for the most part...it's never completely gone. i still struggle with it and i still slip up. the addiction ISN'T worth it. deal with life through prayer, writing, therapy, etc. NOT CUTTING! email or IM if you need to talk some more. i'll be glad to listen and to advise.

Answer 6

If you haven't done it yet... you will. I did and it made me feel better... for a little bit... then I wanted it again... and again... and again...I almost died the last time cause I cut wrong and it scared me, I wasn't trying to die, I was just trying to feel. I went and talked to this councilor and that helped.. but I still think about cutting... it never goes away.

And people who tell you it's not healthy are right, but they also have no freaking idea what they are talking about, so yes seek help but Never Ever think you are bad or dirty or stupid for thinking about it... you just need help. I did and still do. Good luck.

Answer 7

A good therapist is a start. What's so bad about you anyway that you'd want to hurt yourself? Nothing. In fact, you're probably a fine human being. Go easy on yourself. Believe that you deserve to be treated well. And let your inner pain go. I hope you can find peace & happiness. I just know you do deserve it. Best wishes.

Answer 8

i m shocked at ur this behaviour.

look frnd the only thing u should do i s first of dnt take any type od medicenes if u take in this concern a my frnd medicenes r really addictive..

[[[[[then when ever u see any sharp object then u jst control ur emotions n take a deep long breath for some minutes by closing ur eyes]]]]].try to realease ur bad thoughts out of mind.
while doing this u should try to feel happy cool calm n relaxed.feel the beauty of worl in ur soul n specially in ur thoughts n in ur mind.

u should do this task at least four timea a day n when u feel to do it in times of ur need.

belive me this thing this procedure really magically n surely works.
dnt evr try to hurt ur self as u think it wrong that hurting urself outside will help u inside.my frnd u do it wat i told u.

u will be a winner.
bye take care n have fun.

Answer 9

Sassy Says jump into a pile of sharp broken angled glas from a 2 story building and that should take care of any problems you have ever had....

Answer 10

You need to talk to people. Talk to your best friend about it, write a story, and see a counselor about it. This is not to be taken lightly, it sounds like you are depressed. Whatever you do, don't keep it a secret and don't start cutting yourself! (and don't listen to the silly jerks on here who don't care)