i think might not be in love with the guy i'm going to merry. what should i do to find out if i still lovehim

Answer 1

TELL HIM NOW BEFORE ITS TO LATE. ONCE YOU MARRY IT COST TO GET DIVORCED AND THATS ONLY IF THE OTHER WANTS TO SIGN THE PAPERS

Answer 2

Yep separate for a while...if your not sure that's the last thing you want to do is get married...most marriages end in divorce with in the first 5 years anyway!

Answer 3

I think if you have to be questioning whether or not you are in love with him is a problem in it's self. Either you are nervous about getting married, or you are not in love with him. I would sit down and talk with someone who can advise you in your community, a counselor, a pastor, rabbi, priest, an older reletive, someone who can advise you on the situation and who can give you a clear prospective.

Answer 4

If you are even questioning your love for him then you definitely do not need to be getting married to this guy, when you get married you should feel confident about the decision you are making and you should be sure about it.

PS. doubt means don't, it's your conscience telling you that it' not right

Answer 5

If you are having doubts, give yourself time before you take that big step. Think about what you really want and when you dont have one doubt that you want to marry him, that means you are ready.

Answer 6

girl...if i was you i would take a couple of days and think !! trust me you dont want to sink $$$$$$$$$ into a wedding and he not be what you want! why dont you just tell him that you want to wait a litttle while longer before yall get married maybe that might work!

Answer 7

if you feel like you don`t know if you are in love with him or not then you know you are not ready to be married...So, don`t go through it..because marriage is a big step..

Answer 8

separate from him........