Who should walk me down the aisle?

Question

My parents were separated when I was 11 and divorced when I was 15. My father and I don't really have much of a relationship anymore, and I feel like he wasn't there for me growing up so I don't want him to walk me down the aisle. In the time that he was absent his little brother, my uncle stepped in to be somewhat of a male role model in me and my sisters lives, but he was murderd two years ago, so now I'm pretty much stummped. (both of my grandfathers died too.) I was thinking about having my mom do it but that seems a little strange to me. What do you think?

Answer 1

I think that it's *your* day and you should do whatever makes *you* happy. Who cares if something is a little different than the average wedding? Your wedding should reflect your personality, your likes and dislikes. If you truly want your mother to walk you down the aisle, then go for it. And if you decide to walk alone, go for it, too.

Just remember that anything different from the norm at your wedding will make a statement to your guest. Be prepared for questions from people who don't understand.

My father died 2 years ago. If/when I get married, I will either walk alone or let my brother walk me.

Everyone's life and family is different, that's why their weddings are different. Just be yourself and your wedding will be great!

Answer 2

Having your mom walk you down the isle is perfecty fine. If you are close with any other uncles or cousins that could work, as could a close family friend, but your mom is a great option. If you are still uncomfortable with your mom walking you down, walk by yourself. Many brides do it, and your mother could meet you at the front of the isle to give you away. Whatever you decide will be beautiful. Congrats and good luck!

Answer 3

A lot of people are having their mothers walk them down the aisle now. In my case I had my father but that was only because we have a good relationship. It's your day and you can do whatever you want. Actually I was looking at a website the other day and the bride ended up having her mother walk her down the aisle and she had a mother/daughter dance, not all slow and romantic or anything but they just danced in place of her father who passed away. www.theknot.com has a lot of ideas, pictures and helpful hints/articles to help you with the rest of your planning.

Answer 4

It doesn't sound strange to have the person who has always been there when you needed her walk you down the aisle. I think it will be a special moment for you and your mom to remember. Good Luck .

Answer 5

Etiquette dictates that the parent who raised you, whether male or female, should walk you down the aisle. In a two parent household, it's usually the father but if your mother has custody, she's it.

Answer 6

I know a bunch of people who asked their mom to walk them down the aisle, nothing wrong with it. Another alternative to consider is having both of your parents walk with you. Good luck.

Answer 7

I think that your mom would be honored to walk you down the aisle, have you talked to her about it? Nothing strange about it.

Answer 8

I was in the same situation! I proudly walked myself down the aisle and my Mom was my matron of honor!

Answer 9

Walk alone, there is nothing wrong with that. I think I would have preferred that. Another option is to walk down with the best man and I've seen people even walk down with their groom, too.

Answer 10

i've heard of lots of mothers walking their daughters down the aisle. See how your mother feels about it. I think its a great idea!