looks, personallity, overall what do i do?cuz i see no offense ugly girls with sexy guys and think whats wrong with me im pretty?
2006-07-14 07:55:58 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only one word girl: CONFIDENCE!!
The girls who you saw may have excellent personalities and sense of humour!! To get a guys attention be funny, be smart and you'll see that looks only play the part of getting guys looking, but to grab a guys attention more is needed!!!
If you smile and project that you are a happy and friendly person, then they will have no problems approaching you: then you can use you wits and charm!
2006-07-14 07:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by Angel_like 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Well.. If you want to get a guys attention, You can do a lot of things, some silly some stupid But if you want to attract someone in a way that they will keep attracted to you always,
~ Attract him with your inner beauty than your outter beauty ~
Guys might look at ya n tell you u are sexy n stuff, but if you want a permanent attraction, well then, just be sweet, dress modest, and talk with a lot of patience and love and humbleness. And Ofcourse, talk when you have to talk.. this is what most guys love in women,
someone that attracts us for a life time is someone we admire/respect. :) good luck!
2006-07-14 08:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by Darlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, being pretty gets the guy to notice you... but being focused attracts them to you. Find something you are passionate about and put your heart and soul into it.
Broaden your imagination and talk about anything and everything. Take a hint from what he likes and talk about that... everyone has an oppinion... don't be afraid to voice it.
Guys like to debate, whether they admit it or not... but don't become over-passionate and so adamant that you can't be swayed... be open-minded and admit when the guy makes a good point.
Do this, and I guarantee you will have more guys calling you than you can handle...
2006-07-14 08:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by Emanuel Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are scared of pretty girls because they know that other men will look at them . They may also feel out of your league because men only chat up women who they think might be interested in them because they fear rejection . So often they will go for some one less attractive. When you do get a fella keep in interested by letting him talk about himself . A chaps favourite subject will be on him , his likes , dislikes , hobbies , footy, family etc and only have eyes for him and do not FLIRT with his mates !
2006-07-14 08:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by Peanuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well look flirty and hot at the same time! DONT be so flirty with the attitude. A hot *** guy likes a girl that is hard to get. He already thinks he can have ne girl he wants. So act like you arent interested in him, but play hard to get. MAke sure you're flirty but not too obvious. He will be wanting you before you know it. DONT LOOK SO EASY!
Good luck girl!
2006-07-14 08:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop comparing yourself to other people, and stop to think about it. Those 'ugly girls' ,as you call them, might of got the guy by being themselves. If you have to put on a show just to land a man, then is it worth it. Just think, if you get a guy by doing something retarded, you're going to have to do that every single day.
2006-07-14 07:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by laciarlene89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can get a used car for free or would have to assumingly invest a lot into a supposedly high maintenance sports car...
you probably would just take the free car as it gets you where you wanna go....
So if you wanna have the cheap guys that are dating the ugly girls then just lower your price :)
2006-07-14 08:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by ganja_claus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys with ANY maturity are looking for more than looks. They are looking for brains, personality, a sense of humor. Get those going on and guys will start paying attention to you.
2006-07-14 07:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is
1) All ugly women thinks they are pretty.
2) All ugly women thinks all pretty women are ugly.
2006-07-14 08:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying so hard! Be yourself and the right guy will get the message and will be attracted to you and not just your pretty looks. He will be the one for you and you won't have any problems holding him. He will stick with you forever!
2006-07-14 08:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by sassy_sexy_honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you could learn to use proper grammar. That might help. Next you should get expensive clothes that show a majority of your skin. Be ditzy, and dye your hair blonde.
Or you could just be yourself and look for someone who appreciates you as a person. : ) good luck.
2006-07-14 07:59:47 · answer #11 · answered by Pirate Chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋