how can i act like i dont care around a guy i'm crazy about? he blows hot and cold and as much as i hate to admit it, he has me hooked!
i really want to act cool and with a 'don't give a sh*t' attitude. can any of you give some advice?
btw.....his friends and my firends say he is crazy about me, but he is really good at playing it cool
2006-07-14 07:48:43 · 24 answers · asked by Jan 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just stay cool. and give him the cold sholde or play hard to get.good luck!!!
2006-07-14 07:53:53 · answer #1 · answered by Lee J 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you two need some communication in your life. By beating around the bush, wanting to "act cool" isn't going to get his attention, or keep it. Guys don't necessarily like girls who "act cool" and don't show any romantic inclination. Drop the charade, tell him how you feel! I know at your age you don't think that's the cool thing to do. Believe me, you will lose him this way. You have to let your guard down, show a little vulnerability and it will allow him to let his guard down too.
If telling him how you feel is too much, try this: Start talking to him, touch his arm when you're talking or laughing--it's a sure-fire way to get his attention! Look away when he looks at you, just enough time to make eye-contact and then drop your eyes. I'm not talking about being completely untrue to yourself or making a spectacle of yourself, just little things that will make him wonder. You'll only confuse him by being tough, especially if he's of the same mind. Give him an opportunity to approach you using the methods I described above and I'm sure it will break the impasse.
Good luck!
2006-07-14 07:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by Hello Dolly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to have an attitude or have a particular look on your face neither: its all about body language
Make sure that you aint doing things like staring, having your body facing his when in a crowd etc
But you can hint that you like him by walking past him and 'accidentally' brushing yor hand against his and saying sorry while smiling cutely! C'mon if he's interested and youre interested someone has to get the ball rolling!
2006-07-14 07:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by Angel_like 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him all the time. Make sure there are days that you wait for him to call and act like you have been busy. He'll wonder what could be more important and wonder why you haven't called. Make sure that you make plans that don't involve him and let him know that you have other things to do.
I'm totally in love with my man, but he has his times he tries to be Mr. Cool and I will check him. I will stay busy on purpose so that I don't call him or text him or 2-way him and he ends up doing that to me and seeing what I'm up to.
Guys like to be the ones in control and when they're not it drives them crazy and they will check on you to make sure you're still interested in them. It's funny to see them do this.
2006-07-14 08:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, every time your drooling over him, just use another guy's name (preferably someone who doesn't go to your school) and then just talk about him like you can't get him off your mind. I am sure then your guy will wonder who he is. Also, make sure you talk about the other guy without giving away its him... this way he will think your not interested in him...
Oh...and the other thing you can do is say something like ...Oh I was into so and so, but now i am into him (the fake guy) cuz so and so didn't pick up on me right away.
2006-07-14 07:55:22 · answer #5 · answered by monavyas15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 22:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well go with the flow til he makes his move. the best thing is that u know he is crazy about you. act normal and joke with him, sit next to him when ur friends , u and his friends go out. give him the look , body sign, and a smile at him whenever u see him.
2006-07-14 08:03:41 · answer #7 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be flirty in a cool way to get the message across that u like him. maybe ask him if he thinks ur pretty and smile at him. if u dont like to flirt, talk about skate boarding or surfing or sumthin he is intersted in. but always smile cuz that just makes him realize that u like him/like talking to him and he might ask u out.
2006-07-14 07:58:42 · answer #8 · answered by tasha+sean=luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it's the real thing you don't have to jump through hoops, or act cold as stone. The best thing is just to be yourself and not have a front.
2006-07-14 07:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by machinator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you realy want to play hard to get, then you have to play the same game he is but better, get him at his own game and he will be the first one to break down and then you will hold the cards...lol...but remember even guys like him after a while can get bored of playing hard to get, so if your going to keep it up you have to keep it interesting at all times to where he always keeps commiing back. and for you well playing hard to get is fun but i would not do it for a long time, cause you can still play hard to get after you guys become a couple, once in a while!
2006-07-14 07:57:12 · answer #10 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First- don't go to the site that guy gave.
second- you don't need to act cool and stuff just tell him if you know he likes you too. tell him before it's too late.
2006-07-14 07:54:27 · answer #11 · answered by ummestarz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋