I hav a close friend who i hav started to hav feelins for. I'm to scared to say anything because she might not feel the same way. Another major problem she already has some1!!
wat shall i do?????????
2006-07-14 07:43:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you should put forth the extra effort it would take to type one more character (in this case, an "e") when you attempt to type "have".
She will see you as someone who goes the extra effort and might fall for you. Regardless, you'll appear more intelligent. I for one, LOVE intelligent men.
2006-07-14 07:45:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tight spot, friend. Look closely to see if there's anyway she may return your feelings. If you think she might you can probably ask in a round-about way if she could have feelings for you.
The thing about being friends is that you need to respect her and the person she's with, so if you don't believe a relationship with you two will work, don't risk your friendship.
2006-07-14 07:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will nver find out till you ask her. If she does not feel the same way, you may lose the friendship. But better to have loved and lost then never loved at all. Find a good moment and tell her.
2006-07-14 07:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by househldr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your same situation.
I was friends with this guy for like two years when I started getting really bummed out when I couldn't hang out with him and I got jealous when he asked out some other girl.... I was like "whoa, I really like this kid"
So I turned on the flirting to see if he liked me too and... nothing... no response... turns out he thought I was just messing with him and his friends told him there was no way I liked him.
I wound up asking him in the car one night what was going on with him dating this other girl, that she wasn't nearly as cool as me, and why he didn't like me....etc.
He was totally shocked that I really liked him and he actually did like me too, but thought I just saw him as a friend. We started dating that night and it's the greatest relationship I've ever been in.
Today we have been together for almost 14 years, married for 9 and have three kids.
Relationships where you start out as friends are the best you'll ever find. So ask her how she feels, you may just be pleasantly surprized.
Good luck!!
2006-07-14 07:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by mutherwulf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing to do for you and her and the other person is to get involved emotonally.
Imagine you are with someone, and you are happy and she is happy and someone else comes up and tells your loved one that they have feelings for her.
How would you feel?
Remember that always.
If you really want to be with her, then be her best friend... but don't put your life on hold waiting for her to break up with her boyfriend. What if they decide to get married? Then what are you going to do?
It is great that you have feelings... it shows you are alive, but don't let your feelings destroy people.
Keep your feelings to yourself, and just be a really good friend.
2006-07-14 07:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by Emanuel Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u need to wait because if she has some one else then she is not into u so just chil out if its ment to be it will work out...these things take time:):):) GOOD LUCK
2006-07-14 07:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by J~me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell her how you really feel or you can "wait it out" chances are she's not gonna marry this guy anyway. Good luck to you!
2006-07-14 07:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care for her, then you need to wait untill she is single... and never be afraid to let her know how you feel about her! She deserves to know!! Good Luck!
2006-07-14 07:46:35 · answer #8 · answered by Susan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait 4 her
2006-07-14 07:45:18 · answer #9 · answered by luvmylpniko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mite want to just thing sit for awhile and they mite end up goin your way woull be the one she will go to if any problems so then will be your chance, good luck
2006-07-14 07:47:20 · answer #10 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋