If I guy that says he loves you for 5 years, then a friend gets sick and almost dies and he now tells you he's in love with her but wants to be friends and I can't and we say goodbye... then he sends me 3 emails that weekend saying he is worred about me, thinking alot about me and still loves me for who I am... and to dropy him a line and let him know I am okay...what the hell does that mean... I didn't respond and haven't heard anymore... what is up with that?
2006-07-14 07:39:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we were engaged but I broke it off due to he was alcoholic but we have been on again off again for 5 years...
2006-07-14 07:45:32 · update #1
my friend told me I was being selfish by not responding to his emails... I just didn't see that... he said he had what he wanted and was happy... I just didn't understand why he would write me after the fact.
2006-07-14 07:47:44 · update #2
Sounds like he left you and then had second thoughts, but now it's over.
2006-07-14 07:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by hi t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this guy sounds like a total jerk. Ignore him. Or you can call him and tell him to explain himself. What is his problem? Tell him that he messed up and you're moving on. Go and find yourself a REAL man who loves you.
2006-07-14 14:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good- this guy sounds really FLAKY...contact him once more and tell him you're moving on and that means you don't want to be "friends" now...
....he's just trying to keep you as an "option" for sex.
2006-07-14 14:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be sad, this guy just didn't realize what he had with you and you deserve better, go find yourself someone that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated and wont hurt you!
2006-07-14 14:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 years? No commitment? You're just now figuring this guy out? Stop it!!!
2006-07-14 14:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by U. N. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what YOU want. If, after five years, he hasn't proposed and you want a husband, it's time to look elsewhere.
2006-07-14 14:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's definitely jerking you around, even if he doesn't intend to. He sounds clueless. Find someone who knows what he wants (you) and doesn't dither.
2006-07-14 14:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by Gwenhwyver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably didn't have luck with that other girl and he's probably insecure being single and so he's trying to lure you in again because you're his only option.
2006-07-14 14:43:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to have his cake and eat it. It doesn't work that way. Move on.
2006-07-14 14:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by Queen WahidVII 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he cares about you ....wanted to stay friends
2006-07-14 14:43:05 · answer #10 · answered by Steve R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋