I left my ex because i caught him cheating throuhgh email. But now he want me back and i still like him and he told me he wont do it again should i believe him and take him back?
2006-07-14 07:25:54 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how long have you been going out with him? is it a long term relationship. how long has he been doing it?
i think everyone deserves a second chance if and only if you really believe he isn't going to do it again.
2006-07-14 07:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by murfeezlaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*sigh* i've been in this situation, kind of but it wasn't through email, he came out and told me. i was so heartbroken-- and i think you should give it time. make him suffer a little-- make him UNDERSTAND and REALIZE what he truly lost!! make him appreciate you!! after all-- you only realize the worth of something after it's gone.
then when you think he's changed for the better and truly things your worth NOT cheating on-- maybe you could then consider a second chance-- but nothing after the second one. if he messes up again-- then it's done. i don't think the saying "once a cheater always a cheater" is always true. but trust your gut and your heart and just be smart about it the second time around, if you do give him a second chance.
good luck sweetie!! best of wishes!!
2006-07-14 07:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by jetters007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know how many men there really are out there? There are so many more that would never even consider doing that to you! I think you should have a girls night out and do a little fishing! There are literally so many fish in the sea...and if you see some really good ones, maybe you could let some of the other single girls know where the good fishing spots are! And don't forget to wear red...best bait ever! Happy Hunting!:)
2006-07-14 07:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by nobody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be a risk but if you do like him as much as you say you do, then go ahead but there will always be a possibility he might cheat again. But, as for me, I have this thing with second chances and that everyone deserves it. It's all up to you though. I suggest listening to your heart not your head. If it's a risk you're willing to take then best wishes to you.
2006-07-14 07:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by Accidentally in Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some who is a cheater can not changed he may not cheat on u for 10 years but after that he will....all ladys who are so sure about their guy i have to let them know if their guy don't make friend with gurls but they have to be soo so so damn sure their guy would flirt around no matter wether he is in love or not...so all u can do here let him back to u but don't be so sure that he is gonna stay No-Cheat , N0-Chick....me personally would never trust on a guy i have him but i don't keep my self so loyal to him coz i know if he is controlin himself now he won't n da future so what is the point to nag on him n put him under pressure
2006-07-14 07:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is e-mailing considered as cheating, technically-speaking? it's like a wrong phone call or anything similar. Don't be silly and get back to him if you still like him, if not then go find yourself another bf.
2006-07-14 07:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a second chance, I believe everyone deserves one of those. And if he cheats again, then blow the whistle on him honey! All the best with that!
2006-07-14 07:27:44 · answer #7 · answered by sassy_sexy_honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does cheating with email mean? He didn't meat the girl did he? If he was just chatting, I would tell him to stop, but I wouldn't dump him over that.
2006-07-14 07:29:01 · answer #8 · answered by hi t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say wait a little (maybe a week) and see his reaction. If he acts like he doesn't care, then you do not want to be with him. If he gets hurt and will keep calling you and sending you flowers (just some examples), then give him another chance. That is if you still want him of course. It is up to you.
2006-07-14 07:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by italian_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to take him back I would tell you to be cautious. Maybe you should give him a trial period just start talking first to make sure the both of you really wanna be together!!
2006-07-14 07:29:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋