I'm not asking do you regret having kids, but do you regret having them when you had them? Would you have waited? Would you have had them earlier? Or, did you plan it out accordingly and you had them at the right time?
2006-07-14 07:25:44 · 16 answers · asked by King H 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
If i could do it all over... I would have to say that I would have my 1st son when I did (16), I was out of control and had no future at that ime.... he grounded and paced me for the future.
Now the second one I had when I was 20... and I wish that I would have waited.. but his father and I were planning on getting married and he was planned.... I do wish (now that he has cheated on me, well he was cheating on me while I was pregnant_) that I would have waited, because we meet in college and I was unable to finisih...
I love the fact that I had my children early though, now I can enjoy them, I don't be 60 and in a wheelchair when they graduate.... and I won't be old as dirt when they leave the house... I will still be able to enjoy myself
2006-07-14 07:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would of wait it i had my 1st kid that 16 years old and now am 21 and i have 3 more kids .Now i want to go out and have fun and travel but i can't but i dont regret them in a way i happy that i had my kids in a early age
2006-07-14 11:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont regret my kids in the least they are my world. I wish i would have waited a few more years... but things happen for a reason and it was Gods decision for me to have my kids when I did. Now as far as the sperm donor ...hahaha if I had a choice I would have picked a different one.
2006-07-14 07:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lynne D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't. I was 23 with my first, 26 with my second and 28 with my last. I wanted to be done by 30 and I am. Now I can watch them grow do things with them and get on with my life in my thirties. I didn't think the whole partying and college thing in my twenties would ever fit me, and honestly I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life until a few months ago. I think I had them at the perfect time in my life.
2006-07-14 09:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by dixi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, no. Neither of my children were planned. I had my first child at 18 and my second at 19. Both were concieved while I was on birth control. My kids are the best things to ever happen to my fiance(their father) and I. I'll admit it is a little harder, but looking on the bright side, at least I'll be young enough to understand them when they're my age.
2006-07-14 07:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Love this question!! ay!! i Had my 5 yrs old son when I was 18 yrs old!!! honestly, I love my son to death...and my 2 yr daughter...I'm 24 yrs old now, and I still want to do alot of things....But I see my son like an Angel...When I was like 2*3 months pregnant (give or take) I was working at a insurance company, and This two guys used to smoke POT....They offered me some ....of course I Knew I was carrying a baby so I said NO....But who knows what have had done back then if I wasn't carrying my baby...so I consider him like my guardian Angel!!!
'cause I have never done drugs!!! I still want to party. I still wish I have my skinny body again!.....But those things are not going to love you back....those things would not give you your medicine when you are old....by the time my kids are are 15 yrs old I will be like what 34-37yrs old....I can still party! and with my husband that he loves me and have all this plans for us sure we will!!! so no I do not regret my kids..I love to come to a full house...however i am not having no more kids....'cause I still want lots of things for me!!!! Enjoy your kids!!!
2006-07-14 10:02:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my son was unplanned and though I never regret him, sometimes I wish I had waited ( to be married, more secure, etc) but in the other sense he was a blessing in a disquise. I was at a real irresponsible place in my life when I got pregnant and I turned my life around, grew up, went back to school, and am doing great now so in that sense I am glad I had him when I did.
2006-07-14 07:44:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First child was planned perfectly. The second child was a surprise and it turned out wonderful. The third child came after 8 months of tring to conceive. I wish we could have had the third a little sooner but everything has worked out great!
2006-07-14 07:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by Suzanne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have him just the way it happened. I wish I had been married and in a different situation. But, everything that I went through with him and what happened in those months, I would never reconsider it for a second.
2006-07-14 08:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by stagephntm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I planed my first child, but realize now that I should have waited until I got out of college.
2006-07-14 07:30:35 · answer #10 · answered by butterfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋