There's this guy that goes to my school. He is the coolest guy I have ever known. I've liked him for almost a year now. I'm afraid that if I let him know that I like him, and he doesn't like me he will avoid me. We are pretty good friends, and we've held hands a few times, but I don't know if it was serious. He's told me I'm beautiful, but I don't know if he really means it. What should I do?
2006-07-14 07:22:19 · 2 answers · asked by Soccer_Chik06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask him,since ot seems like you two have playful relationship let him know up front that this a serious question so he needs to be upfront. Good luck!
2006-07-14 07:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by purple_dogs_bed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-07-16 03:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋