will my sisters best friend broke her heart yesturday.actually she has two best friend one lives in norco and one lives down one school norco is like another place far away and we kind of live down streets will my sisters heart broke beacuse the one that lives one street never has time for us no more... cares only about the one that lives far away.
i cant belive she cares about the one far away abd just blows us off!
and few days ago they had a sleep over and didnt invite my sister she was heart broken that her friend cares about the one far away then the one that is so close to her
i want to know if you break somones heart is that a sin too?
2006-07-14 07:21:27 · 32 answers · asked by Grack 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I don't think so, sorry I know that this isn't the answer you were looking for.
2006-07-14 07:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to give light on the situation before I answer whether it is a sin or not. Friends may not always be forever. People have different likes and dislikes and sometimes get along better with one person and not another. It is not your sisters fault that her friend chose to become closer to the girl farther away. It does hurt when you realize this, but it happens all throughout life and a lot more when you are young. It could be that when the friend moved farther away the other girl missed her a lot and now wants to see her when she can, knowing your sister is close by may make her feel like she could see her at any time. So, think about other possibilities and the other persons point of view as much as you can before you judge a situation.
Now, it is not a sin to do something like this. We should befriend people and do our best to help each other and stay close, but there are friends we have for a little while and friends we have for a long while and even still friends we will have forever. So, take my advice and comfort your sister, but tell her that her friend may be leaving her out for a lot of reasons and may not even know she is doing it at all. Your sister should try to reconnect with her and if that does not work, then she can find a new friend. Just be there for her until she feels better. God Bless.
2006-07-14 07:32:06 · answer #2 · answered by missesbean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anyone intentionally breaks someones heart, but all sins r forgiven except the sin against the holy ghost. Don't u think that a broken heart is better than spending your life with the wrong person? If God had intended for your sister to spent a lifetime with this guy then there would not have been a break-up.
2006-07-14 07:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by tomato123red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that cures a broken heart is time and im sorry that this has happen to you and please don't hurt ur self u have to remember life goes on and better things or better people will come along. Help your little sister and let her knows as well be there talk to her just don't hurt her or self more then what both of you are. Let you emotions out just not in a physical way just be smart and tell her and your self to be and remember only time will help and don't hold in your emotions it only makes it worse. WE LOVE U NEVER FORGET THAT!
We all have gone to the same situation and have lost friends as well, I have lost one that I still wish I can find him. But unfortunately I have not, but we have to continue living our life and meet other people. Remember that you both have only one best friend in this world, and that is you mom and you sister, because friends comes and goes, but mom and sis are always there.
God bless
2006-07-14 07:36:37 · answer #4 · answered by Evy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,dearie!
It's not a sin. Too bad that this situation has happened to your sister. She'll make new friends eventually. What goes around comes around, and this girl will face the same thing in her life at some point and might learn a thing or two about being a true friend from then on.
2006-07-14 07:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by December Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think breaking someone's heart is a sin. Many times people are insensitive and they don't realize how it's affecting other people. This case with your sister and her friends is unfortunate - the only thing she can really do with her friends is be honest with both them about how their actions make her feel. There is nothing wrong with her telling them the truth and letting them know they hurt her.
Talking to them might do nothing, so she should be prepared for that. The best thing to do is for her to forgive the friend that hurt her and move on with finding other friends and/or concentrating on the friends that really are there for her.
2006-07-14 07:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking someones heart is a sin. The biblical definition of "sin" is to "miss the mark" or to "fail to uphold your expectations." The issue is not the broken heart but why you had such a great expectation in your friend? If Satan can find something you love more than God he will use it to break your heart. But if you love God more than anything-even your friend-it is quite impossible for Satan to use God to break your heart. In God you have security from broken hearts. Think about this.
2006-07-14 07:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand what a sin is. Breaking promise causes a collapse in a probablility that would have been likely. the pain coming from the shattered dream takes confidence away from you and you may find yourself in a state of victimization therefore stopping you from making more dreams come true. Is that close to what a sin is. not sure. sugohaseyo
2006-07-14 07:25:28 · answer #8 · answered by Corey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if breaking someone's heart is a sin, then we are all going to be damned.
Everyone breaks at least one heart in their life time, be it intentional or unintentional. It's just human nature.
I'm not saying it's right to hurt someone, but it's something that naturally happens.
Humans, by nature, are selfish and egotistical. Many of us try to overcome it, and treat people well...but, none of us are perfect.
Often times we don't realize that by neglecting someone we are hurting them....
it is a terrible thing to hurt. We all know that.....
But, I think it is unfair to say that those who hurt us are horrible people, because whether we know it or not, we are just as guilty of hurting someone else...
2006-07-14 07:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking someone's heart is one of the biggest sins. Even God will not forgive such a person who breaks someone's heart . Only the heart broken person can forgive him or her.
2006-07-14 07:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by the.chosen.one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sin lies in the intention of the individual. If this girl did not intentionally break your sister's heart then it was not a sin.
2006-07-14 07:24:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋