i am in the 10th grade and i have a tiny problem.. thought that this boy liked me at my school. he hugs me every chance he gets he stares at me he pokes me and everything hes always playing. but when ever he looks at me to ask me for a hug or something he looks sort of serious (sort of seriousness) im not sure if that is just the way he acts sometimes or what. and then i see him sometimes fliriting with this girl and my friend said she saw him once flirting with someone too. im confused hey guys how do you act around a girl that likes you? should i just forget about him and just wait for him or try and make him jealous like give effection to other boys? help i need some opinions!
2006-07-14 07:21:19 · 18 answers · asked by sheistoofurious! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say show him extra attention then usual, like flirting, that way if he is interested he'll notice you are too, that way he'll ask you out and you can be an item. After that if his flirting with other girls continues you need to dump him. He could just be flirting around because if he can't get you, he'll have other girls lined up. If he doesn't notice your extra attention to him, find another guy.
2006-07-14 07:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by peace_is_forreal 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ALL girls go thru this in high school. If I knew then, what I know now, I would play his game. If you really want him to be interested in you, be unattainable. Don't hug him every time he asks, joke around and pretend you will hug him, then don't ("Gotcha" ) -- for some reason, boys/men LOVE the game of CHASING. Trust me, do you & your friends find that the good guys all date the "bi*ches" at school? It's because they make it hard for the boy to get. Play hard to get, you'll see. If you don't play hard to get, you will see him settle down with a girl that does....
2006-07-14 07:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by EssGee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all boys,especially at that age dont like only one girl. the fact that he flirts with other girls doesn't mean he doesn't like you....and them. it just means that you have something to think about before considering being in a relationship with him. but its 10th grade so trust me either way you'll get over it. trying to make someone jealous is just playing silly games and once you start doing that you start losing you and your integrity, don't ever compromise that for any boy.
2006-07-14 07:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he is just playing around to use you. He is just baising you and trying to get you convinced to do things that he wants you to do. And he is also trying it with a lot other girls. You should have been careful from such guys. And you shouldn't be letting those guys to use you for their interest.
2006-07-14 07:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tryin to get jealous isnt a good thing always trouble but just let it go for now and ignore if have to maybe see a change in him if not not worth it a player
2006-07-14 07:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a player. He feels good about himself, confident. He takes it to his head, and likes to mess with girls heads.
One on one he is very charming and gets a lot of "love"
But you put all those girls together around him, and see what happens. (I'm not recommending that).
What I do recommend is not scooping to his level.
Move on, and find a guy who respects you.
He is a player, don't hate him for it, just don't feed into it.
Good luck, hope it all works out for you.
2006-07-14 07:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by val schmal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be up front with him and tell him you like him more than just a friend. Yes it is a risk but it is quicker without all the games. Good luck.
2006-07-14 07:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks of you as his "sister", and likes your company!
Is he a close neighbor? A relative? Or just a close friend? Some people just like to be friendly and you may have interpretated it as wanting to be a "boyfriend"...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-07-14 07:30:22 · answer #8 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm......i think he just wants a girlfriend, any girl. if i were you, I'd stay friends with him, play the jealous card a little, and if he still doesn't ask you out, just forget about it.
2006-07-14 07:27:04 · answer #9 · answered by emotionally_attatched 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has alot of hormone issues. just be yourself. don't ever USE a guy to make another jealous. what goes around... comes around. just keep being a sweetheart and he will come to you... if that's REALLY what you want.
2006-07-14 07:26:10 · answer #10 · answered by Friendly Neighbor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋