I have done alot of online dating and always set a date with a guy a few days or at least a day before we actually met. We discussed where to meet and when. The last few guys that I have talked to have asked if I wanted to meet but we never set any definate date. I was left hanging on whether we were going to meet tomorrow or the next day or whatever. I would let them know when I was free and they said ok but nothing else. If any of my times wasn't good for them, they could have told me that so I would n't be wasting time to see what day we would meet. I like to know at least the day before so I can plan my day and don't like to be on call. It seems I have been getting up alot lately wondering if I am going out on a date or not only to spend the whole day (my days off) waiitng to see only to hear nothing from them till the end of the day .
2006-07-14 06:39:10 · 4 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have not yet met the right guy.
Try not to worry about it too much, just keep looking.
2006-07-14 06:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by John G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to let you know by a certain day or time...if they don't, call a girlfriend and plan something and then do it. It's one thing if they spontaneously call you up to see if you want to do something, but if they can't check their schedule in a reasonable amount of time and get back to you and they're not telling you what the issue is, then they are probably just waiting for something/someone better to spend time with.
It's rude and you don't really want to hook up with a rude guy, do you? If it's just an accident or a one time thing, they'll let you know. It's actually better if you ask them to give you times when they are free and then you can pick the one you want.
2006-07-14 06:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by threelucy2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife's friend is going through the exact same thing. Don't make these dates on your day off. Make these meeting during the week after dinner. Coffee, drinks, don't wrap a weekend around a first meeting.
2006-07-14 06:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by brooklyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would guess that he is playing you....or has lied about himself so much, he would be embarrassed to be with you, and see all the lies...if you ahve not seen him on camera, I would assume it is the latter.....he has lied about who he is, what he looks like, etc etc.....and now the lies are going to be found out......
2006-07-14 06:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋