steddy yelling cursing telling me to get a life and move on she talks to me like im a dog
2006-07-14 06:36:27 · 24 answers · asked by lil westside 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
how old are you and where is dad
2006-07-14 06:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know the whole situation you are having or your age so my advise to you would be. Be open and honest with your Mom on how you are feeling. Take her out for coffee or a lunch, without getting frustrated and defensive try talking to her . I really hope that things work out for you but if you feel you need to leave maybe stay at a friends house for a few days, don't just up and leave God forbid you get hurt or something. Let her know where you are going and let her know you both need to sit down and talk. Good Luck.
2006-07-14 06:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its because she just wants to finally get her life straighten up. She thinks if she loses him she loses everything yet its not true. Just sit down with her one time and tell her "Mom, I dont feel comfortable with you always yelling and cursing at me it's making me feel like your treating me like a dog" And if she gets out of control. Tell her your not taking her **** anymore. And that its fine that you are going to pick a guy over her kids and that shes pathetic. She'll think about the stuff she's done to you and later on will say sorry. But for awhile just stay at a friends or a family members house. You dont need to be around that kind of atmosphere
2006-07-14 06:41:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem. When my mom and dad divorced and she found another husband, I felt like we got brushed aside also. If I were you I would find another place to go. Once the honeymoon is over and she is no longer with him, she will come back into your life. Give it time and find a life for yourself where you don't have to involve her. You'll be much happier in the end and possibly salvage your relationship with your mother before too many things happen between the two of you and it can't be repaired. Been there, done that...but life goes on and momma gots to have a life too!
2006-07-14 06:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by geewhizbaby2008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a mother should never choose a man over her own kids that is just out ragas to here but don't go out on your own if your not ready i know its hard to hear your mom speak to you like that but try to ignore it things will get better and that man the she is choosing over you will end up messing up and she will regret every thing she put you through and if he hurts he she will need you there to help her get through her tough times so just take it easy and be patient with her she will realize what she is doing is wrong and hurting you and if it helps let her know how you feel good luck & god bless
2006-07-14 06:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by the shy one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your mom is going through some trials and tribulations that she cant handle alone...
And the problem is, that the man will complicate this more, if she is willing to get rid of the kids...
Talk to your dad and see what can be done, with the others! If your old enough, then its time to get out on your own...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-07-14 06:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do anything I think you should really sit down with her and talk. Tell her straight up how her words make you feel and how you interpret them. Then ask her is that what she intended? If so, then if you really feel that way, I think you should maybe spend a little time away.. at a friend's house.. and aunt, cousin, etc. Then ask her if you think that you two could work things out?
2006-07-14 06:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by nicole_reyna06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. How old are you?
2. Somehow I don't think we are hearing the WHOLE story.
How do I know this? I'm a mom and this has been played on me too. :)
Tell the truth here.
Go "talk" to her. Don't talk AT her and ask her to do that with you too. One of you has to be the mature one.
2006-07-14 06:39:28 · answer #8 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moms looks like she have brained washed.. by her man..so from on now ..you tell your moms to leave you alone. .......tell how you feel when mom's defends her man than your kids..good luck if you decide to go, where will you ...Friends ,relatives ,,they will sent you packing after the first week .stay with moms as long that men is not getting fresh with you .
2006-07-14 06:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by gengen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should listen to your mom and by the way, she is allowed to have a life & love of her own - you don't own her. If you are grown up, maybe you should get a life and move out.
2006-07-14 06:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by savagescorpio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon, you have to sit down and just tell her that you just want to talk and that you dont want to argue, If she cant then you have to keep quiet, And if you have some family members you can go to , go talk to them and see if they can intervine for you or let you stay with them until you can get on your feet. Who knows, maybe some day you and your mom can get close again,
2006-07-14 06:56:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋