should i have a last fling if the chance arises and then stay faithful or should i be faithful on the nite out ?
2006-07-14 06:28:46 · 40 answers · asked by x_cerberus_uk_x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It depends. Do you really think that the only commitment you have to your fiancee' comes when you actually say the words "I do," or do you consider yourself commited and monogamous now.
It also depends on whether you think you could, or it would be appropriate, to live a lie - to start your marriage off with a lie - for the rest of your life.
Sound like fun?
2006-07-14 06:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by tagi_65 5 · 9⤊ 1⤋
Why? The only reason to have sex with someone is that you love them. Do not get all tangled in the last fling syndrom. I am not saying do not go out. Just go to a place you are sure of. Tell your best man what you want and what you do not want. He should respect you. If not you have chosen the wrong best man.
Just keep this in your mind. What would I do if my Wife/husband found out about my last free night? Woudl i react the same if I caught them? Is this unfaithfulness what to expect for the next 50 years of marriage
2006-07-14 06:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by thebulktiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your fun but in a respectful way to your wife to be. Nobody has wrote it in stone that a stag party has to be a "one more last chance" for a night of sex with another. How would you feel about your wife to be out having one more last fling before you 2 get married?
2006-07-14 07:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by pq4u72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're thinking of a fling with other women, you don't love her enough and so shouldn't marry her in the first place. If you're unfaithful once you'll be tempted to do it again. Especially if you get away with it. What is more important? Marrying your fianceé or a fling with another woman? If your more worried about the importance of a fling, I can't see the marriage lasting very long.
2006-07-14 06:37:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want my honest opinion, dont have a fling. Its not worth it. And why would you if you are about to marry the person that you love? Go have a great night/weekend whatever, flirt about, but dont shag. How would you feel if the boot were on the other foot and your girlfriend was thinking the same thing? It would be horrible I am sure.
2006-07-14 06:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by Moi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? You're about to get married!!!! Having a "fling" doesnt sound like a good start to a marriage. Always stay faithful!!!
2006-07-14 06:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay faithful. If you can't be faithful now you won't be later either. Besides would you like your other half having a last fling?
2006-07-14 06:35:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY FAITHFUL...I REPEAT...STAY FAITHFUL!!!!! a fling is not worth you messing up what is going to be a lifetime...don't do that, besides, you don't wanna "last fling" yourself up on something you can't get rid of...after all, condoms don't protect you from ALL diseases!!!!! keep that in mind when you wanna have a fling and then picture yourself trying to explain what you "caught" to your 'soon to be' wife and why she has it too!!!!! NO FLINGS, YOU HEAR ME....NO FLINGS!!!!!
2006-07-14 06:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by queenreignsupreem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you are asking this. Would you like your last fling to haunt you for the rest of your life? (EX. You got the person pregnant or caught an STD) The time to be experimental was before you promised to marry someone.
2006-07-14 06:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by housefullofboys3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to have fling? There might be something missing from your current relationship.
If your friends are pushing you into a situation where you might be unfaithful, they are not your true friends. Sometime singles friends try encourage friends in a relationship to cheat.
I think of what you will lose if your bride to be found out.
Good luck.
2006-07-14 06:45:01 · answer #10 · answered by Kev's Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay faithful-would you want your wife to be to have a last fling?
2006-07-14 06:50:41 · answer #11 · answered by mlm1975 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋