How can i makemy boyfriend trust me?

Answer 1

Quit kissing other guys for starters.

Answer 2

The fastest way to gain trust is to always be there when he needs it. Eventually he will give something up that he holds in very high regard, and what you do with that will make all the difference. If you fumble it, his trust in you will go down. If you hold on to it and take care of it, trust will go up. Easy. O, and don't sneak around...that doesn't help.

Answer 3

Dont give into his jealous behaivor and he will not continue to insinuate that you are untrustworthy. I have been in more than enough jealous relationships, they never last. If you act liek ti doesnt bother you and turn it around on him, like he has the problem then he will stop, because he will no longer get the reaction out of you that he wants.

Answer 4

You can't. It's up to him to decide to trust you.

Normally, if you have done nothing in the past, his distrust of you has nothing at all to do with you. He has issues that he acquired before he met you.

If you HAVE done something to make him distrust you, then discuss it. If he can't ever forgive you and move foward in the releationship then find someobody else. Start over and learn from your mistakes.

Answer 5

tell him that if he wont trust you, then you have no reason to be dating cuz boyfriends and girlfriends are there to trust and love each other

if he still doesnt trust you, then thats not the kind of boyfriend that you need, break up with him.

Answer 6

Hello Friend,

First you have to be honest with yourself. You have to wonder are you doing anything......................(honestly) ..........anything that would make him feel like you are not a trusting person. For example:
1. Dressing to provacatively - I know we women hate to hear this, but...........when we are in a relationship, some males do not want their mate showing to much skin. (EVEN if you dressed sexy when you met him) For some reason.....some men (not all) find that to be an invitation for other guys to look at you. Once they get that in their head........they think......"hmmmm......if she is showing her clevage in public, she may want unwanted attention........now.....I can't trust her as much" It is sad......but some men do feel this way.

#2. Have you cheated before? Kiss another guy, very flirty? This can be a problem.

#3. Are you always on your cell phone? Example: you and your boyfriend are out to a movie, or shopping, and your cell phone rings every time you turn around? Or you are always texting messages in his prescence? If so................sometimes he may wonder "Hmmmmm...........who keeps calling and texting her like this?" Even if it is a girlfriend of yours.................in a guys mind..........he still wonders. "hmmmmmmm"

#4. Do you party alot? Dance clubs every other weekend?
Strangley, sometimes guys will like to party, but they don't want their woman to be a lush or party to much.......they start to wonder. (not all men......but some.)

#5. Are you talking about ex-boyfriends to your current boyfriend? Bringing up pass relationships. Or.........still talking to ex-boyfriends and your current Boyfriend knows about it? Now that could make him nervous and not trust you. He may think you still care about the ex's even if you tell him you DON'T!

#6. Did you give him sex to early? I have learned from this one! Trust me. I know people say..........."Hey.............the time you have sex doesn't matter." but uhhhhhhhhhhh..............you don't want to give it to early either! So...............think about it.........let's pretend for a moment...........for example. If you met your boyfriend on January 1st 2006, you had a date, and you gave him your body on January 2nd, ummmmmmmm .......it would probably be kinda hard for him to trust you later. Just because he may never ever tell you this..............but.............he may say........."GOD! She was easy. It only took me one day to get that! hmmmmmmm..............if she was that easy with me........there is not telling who else has dipped into that." and there you go..................trust broken.

Now dear friend..........................these are all examples and something for you to think about. I know that sometimes we don't want to hear what is affecting our relationship. Trust me.....I was one of those people who justified EVERYTHING! Even when I knew I was to blame, I could come up with an excuse on WHY it is the other person. (giggle)


The last thing is this:
#8. IS HE CHEATING? If you are not doing any of the things above, not giving him any reason to think that you are not a trusting person...............................then........................HE may be cheating, or probably slept with someone you are unaware of so his mind is playing tricks on him. If you are in the CLEAR, then you know he may be the cheater. Maybe YOU shouldn't trust HIM. Hope this helps

Answer 7

I hate to say it but you cannot "make" anyone trust you.

Trust is earned. You need to earn his trust by your actions.

If you are displaying actions that are trustworthy and he still does not trust you then I would suspect he has "trust issues" from unresolved issues.

Answer 8

in what sense?
Remember this
without trust there is not an lasting relationship.
When trust is done, love could be gone
If he does not trust you no matter what you then get out from that relationship because without trust there is nothing

Answer 9

You can't make anyone trust you. You must earn that trust. Some people are overly suspicious though.

Answer 10

don't be concerned about making him trust you, trust is a long process not easily earned so just go with the flow

Answer 11

you cant make someone trust you
its built up, based on the way you act and how you treat the person, if you are reliable and whether you trust that person back