I see nightmares of everything going wrong and my boyfriend thinks I'm exaggrating this.I can' sleep properly so I'm very tired during the day.and when I get soothing medicine I get too sleepy.Does anyone know a way for me to calm down?
2006-07-14 05:56:27 · 15 answers · asked by elif ata 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Good question! I am going to be extremely stressed when MY big day comes next year and I am already wondering how I will make myself eat so I still fit in my dress! I totally loose sleep AND my appetite when I stress, and as I only weigh 100lbs as it is, I don't wanna have a wedding to "Die" for!
Maybe try a little yoga? Just some calming breathing? Or a day at the spa to take your mind off it? I wouldn't suggest sleeping pills, they totally zomb-ifie (well, for ME anyhow)... Eat right, and try to focus on the POSITIVE side! Smile, and the whole world smiles with you...
2006-07-14 06:03:13 · answer #1 · answered by Skate Rat Betty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhh the stressed out bride to be. I am a massage therapist and I see women in your situation several times a week. I would suggest a day at a nice spa with your best friend. Find a place where you both can get a massage in the same room so you can talk if you like. I would suggest a relaxing Swedish massage and then maybe a sea salt scrub. The massage will relax you and the scrub will make your skin baby soft for the big day. A manicure and pedicure will have you looking and feeling your best. Make a day of it and talk about anything and everything. You will be suprised how good you will feel after.....and if by chance you are in Houston, Texas e mail me and I'll tell you the best place to go......Congrats on your happy day !!
2006-07-15 18:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness, you have to find a way to calm down! By now, everything is arranged, right? Dress, food, flowers, etc? There's nothing more you can do.
This is how you have to look at it........YOU have done everything you are supposed to have done, there is nothing more you can control! Chances are everything will go perfectly, according to plan. However, they may not - but if this happens, just let it go and enjoy your day..........its all about you and your man!
Now, book a day at the nearest day spa, go in for a facial, a pedicure and an hour long massage, and calm yourself down!
2006-07-14 06:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by thersa33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first I would like to say Congrats. Everything will be just fine. I dint really know a "way" of calming down. I get really excited before big dates that have been planed for a long time. I always think that something bad will happen and I wont be able to go on vacation or whatever. Dint worry your stress is normal. I would say relax. keep your self occupied and please dont Worry. Things will be great you wait and see!
2006-07-14 06:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by BOOTS! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything will be okay. I would say you and your fiance take a day for yourselfs and get away from everything just ride around or go do something that has nothing to do with the wedding! It can be stressful but believe me the day goes by much better when you are not stressed and you just relax.
2006-07-14 07:39:33 · answer #5 · answered by glitter3317 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wedding is in a week and I know how you feel. When I start getting super stressed I just think of how much fun its gonna be and that I am going to get married to the man I love! Everything will be ok, even if it doesn't go perfect it will still be one of the best memories of your life!! Try imagining things going perfect rather that thinking about what can go wrong.
2006-07-14 06:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax, and in the future, you'll laugh at how you were nervous for this. Everything should go well if you've planned well. Always have a backup plan for everything, and make sure that everything is organized. You'll do ok, I'm sure of it. If things don't go as planned, then don't get upset, just laugh it off. This is YOUR day, so enjoy it. Have a wonderful wedding, a great honeymoon, and I hope your marriage is the envy of your friends......best of luck to you!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-14 06:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm left handed too , the stupid only will think that it is bad . I eat with my right hand just because I got used to that since I was a child . If someone couldn't use his right hand in eating so it's very ok , no problem in Islam about it .
2016-03-27 05:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by Cynthia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...its tough...iwas the same before my wedding too and not to get you down..it gets worse. the day before, nothing was going right. my mom was making the food and i was supposed to help,. but she wouldnt even pick up the phone and talk to me so i had no day in what went on. my music wasnt working out, they got my flowers mixed up with another wedding, my maid of honour got attacked by her cat and had scratches on her face and it was just a disaster, but everything worked out the next day and our wedding was beautiful. just remember that even if something minor goes wrong, it will just creat a memory for you on your special day. try going out to a movie or doing something not wedding related to keep your mind off of it. have a girls day where you either go to a spa or do some at home spa treatments. find time to nap during the day if your not sleeping well at night. and remember that no matter what happens, your spending the rest of your life with the one you love. best of luck!
2006-07-14 07:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be because he's not the one. I am a very nervous person and before I got married, I was completely calm because I knew I was making the right decision. Hopefully, you are just excited.
2006-07-14 06:10:48 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋