ok so I get treated like crap with every guy that i go out with and I know that I have low-self-asteem but every one says that i shouldn't but i do because I feel like i am not meant to love or be loved b/c when i treat a guy really good they treat me like crap and i can't help it but i treat every guy like gold even if i dont like them all thet much and i hate to hurt guys cause i now how it feels
2006-07-14 05:55:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you are making it too easy for guys to take advantage of you. You should make a guy know that you are a priceless work of art, that they should feel blessed to have you. Dont give away your pearls so easily. Make someone have to work to get you.... that way he knows you are worth sticking around with.... You seem to be a nice person..... let others see it too!!!!
hopefully you find a guy that respects you!!!!!
2006-07-14 06:02:27 · answer #1 · answered by AgentQT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to talk to someone (counselor/therapist, etc.) about your self esteem issues. They might help you overcome that. Either way there ZERO reason why you should stand for anyone treating you badly. True, a lot of guys can be that way but not all. Once you are feeling better about yourself you will likely be better able to lose the losers quickly and start finding some guys worthy of your affection. Good luck!
2006-07-14 13:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First guys don't like girls who treat them nice. I don't know why, but they treat the girl that loves them and would do anything for them like S***. If you want people to love you you have to love YOURSELF first. If you don't love yourself and you don't have respect for your self then how Can other people love you and have respect for you? When you start loving yourself you'll start hanging with guys who don't treat you like crap. Good Luck!
2006-07-14 13:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by Girl in love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately it appears you in a bit of a rut, I'm sorry to say.
i suggest backing off a bit and waiting for someone with similar likes as you. as for your question there is someone for everyone no matter who. you just have to be patient. first i would get that self-esteem up. that's going to be your biggest road block.
being nice is fine, but if you let ppl walk all over you you'll may never find the right person.i wish you the best of luck.
2006-07-14 13:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by siddragoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhhhhhhh You're such a sweetheart........You know just remember who gets hurt in this "YOU ARE HUNNY".....Don't let yourself be used like that is not gOOd.....There are bad & good guys out there, if you see they treat you like crap, treat them the same way..YOu know there are some wEirdos that like to be treated like that....remember one thing you come before everybody else.......Your feelings count more.....Think Of You for Once Please.........
2006-07-14 13:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by Lesley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up and be demanding, have some selfworth it's not hard. Just do it every day and then after a while you won't have to try anymore, you'll just be that way.
2006-07-14 13:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by awakeinacoma_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwh im sure someone will love you
atleast you are respectful of their feelings and understand how it feels. Give it time, you will find somebody who is loving and caring and right for you.
2006-07-14 13:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, you're not alone in this world..
Maybe ur looking but don't really see the perfect guy right in ur face...
u tell urself this.......who is "HE"?
2006-07-14 13:02:18 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Maria_missing_you♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋