A friend just told me that he is moving 2 another state 2 start a new job. I feel really--I don't even know. We met while taking a class together a few years ago. We started spending most of our time together 2 the point that everybody thought that we were a couple. I put him on the sideline when a mutual friend told me that he lied about going out of town when he stayed in town & his so-called ex came 2 visit. It pissed me off because he lied & we weren’t at the stage that he had 2 hide the situation. As time progressed, I chilled lesser with him. He'd come pass my office from 2 get advice on things. Two months ago we ran n2 each other & I couldn’t look him in the eye as he did. I felt overwhelmed w/ a funny feeling but acted nonchalant. He was acting like he was holding something back or inside. I felt drained after contact. I loved him-no strings attached. I don't think I will ever forget him. If we were meant to be, too late now.
2006-07-14 05:53:27 · 8 answers · asked by To be or not to be 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He visited me out the blue last week at work. He asked to spend some time together to my surprise. I got sick over the weekend and was unable. I called him today and he broke the news. I asked him why didn't he tell me that he was moving. He said that he was undecided at that time he came to visit me.
2006-07-14 05:59:00 · update #1
Maybe he visited you out the blue to see if there was any change for you two. By not seeing him he probably took that as you not having any feelings for him. Maybe he just wanted to have sex one last time. Evidently he valued you as a person because you were the one he went to for advice even after you cooled things off. You both could be hiding feeling for each other. Who's to say yall weren't meant to be. If he is meant to be yours, he will be--when the time is right. Just like you let him go on and "do him," he still was coming back for you and your opinion.
2006-07-14 06:29:08 · answer #1 · answered by All_iii_on_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life---if he lied to you once, he would do it again. As far as your feelings are concerned: time heals all sorrow. The best thing you can do is move on with your life. He made his choice. If this was meant to be, then it still will happen at a later time--that's how I believe...Good Luck
2006-07-14 06:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to his nearest kin thats nevertheless contained in the section, no matter if it is only a ideal pal he performed basketball with who he nevertheless may call. tell him the way you experience. let somebody else share your thoughts so the be conscious can get out and he can go back to you some day for a visit, so that you 2 can artwork this out. contained in the propose time you could go away love dedications to him on the hit radiostation that each and each and every individual may ought to hearken to even him.
2016-12-01 06:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you can throw a log on the fire and it won't catch fire.
Come back the next day the log will be there in a pile of ashes, start up the fire again, and the story repeats.
2006-07-14 06:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say good-bye! No strings attached!
2006-07-14 05:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its late i think
2006-07-14 05:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by cool chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep with him before he goes.
2006-07-14 05:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by kurleylovescheese 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cry
2006-07-14 06:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by Lynette♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋