I have son and he already said he wants 2 or 3 and I do want a daughter so ant suggestions
2006-07-14 05:34:26 · 7 answers · asked by goaldeneagle95 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
until it is safe for our children to have us!
2006-07-14 05:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by soulroute™ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I want to finish having kids as soon as possible so that I can be an empty nester sooner while I still have my youth, than later. I love love love my kids...but I got some wild livin' to do I missed out on because I had my 1st daughter when I was 21 (second one on the way, I'm 35 now) . lol. But seriously, waiting until after 35 to have kids causes increased risks for some birth defects. Having kids too soon causes some resentments and shortfalls, (it didn't for me, but I hear some people say so) but I think babies come (women become pregnant) right when they are "supposed to." For me, the younger the better just because of my personal preference, which will also be how you decide, too of course. Best wishes!
2006-07-14 05:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is your Son?
I suggest having them 2-3 years apart, old enough to not have 2 babies but still close enough in age to be good close siblings.
And no having to deal with the fights!!
Good Luck
2006-07-14 05:41:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be in this relationship for a few years and feel it out first. I waited three years before we had our first child (5 years all together if counting dating) When you have a child you are connected for life so make sure this is who you are ready to be with forever.
2006-07-14 08:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by The Kings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on the last four questions you have asked I would say your shouldn't have anymore children.
2006-07-14 05:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by localmeg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't.
http://www.adoptuskids.org
2006-07-14 05:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by Sir J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait. Be fruitful and multiply.
2006-07-14 05:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by The Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋